Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins

A few guys who still have their V cards have recently asked me for sex advice. Most of them have a significant amount of anxiety around their lack of sexual experience.
I decided to combine my top five sex tips for virgins (and 1 bonus tip) and put them into an article that I hope can help the less sexually experienced guys out there to prepare for and hopefully enjoy their first time.
Here’s my Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins:
Tip #1: Become A Good Kisser
If you’d like to really increase your confidence in your ability to please women in the bedroom, how about learning how to pleasure them outside of the bedroom first by learning to become a great kisser? A good kisser is relaxed, smooth and understands how to gently increase the levels of passion and intensity at a steady pace. Developing these traits will create tremendous pleasure for almost any women you kiss and it also translates directly to the type of attitude you should eventually have in the bedroom as well.
Tip #2 Don’t Forget Foreplay
When you do decide to go all the way and take things to the bedroom, don’t forget the importance of foreplay to prepare, enhance and extend the love making process. From kissing to touching to licking to whatever you or her feels like are all great options to make the entire sexual experience much more pleasurable and more successful for both of you. The actual sexual intercourse is a great main event but surround it a great opening act and plentiful sideshows and good things will happen.
Tip #3: Limit The Level Of Intimacy
To remove a lot of pressure from yourself to be an amazing lover the very first time, I recommend that you consider taking baby steps towards having full sex. For a first timer, it’s much easier to gently slide your finger and/or your tongue inside of her and please her that way than it is to have full sex – and it can be just as fun and pleasurable as well. She will probably return the favor with her hand or tongue as well but either way, you still made important progress that you can build on over time. Once touching and licking her sexual areas becomes easier and easier, you can then start moving towards full sex in the future love making sessions.
Tip #4: Keep It Simple
When it is time to have full sex, it’s probably not the best idea to choose difficult positions that even yoga instructors or Olympic gymnasts would find difficult for your first attempt. Instead, start with the easiest position possible and go from there. Some of the easiest sexual positions to consider include:

•  Missionary/deck chair – she lies on her back, put a pillow underneath her pelvis to elevate her for easier positioning then spread her legs and guide yourself inside her from a kneeling position.
• Spoon – she lays on her side facing away from you and you slide inside her from the side and slightly lower than her.
• Her on top – you lie flat on your back and she lowers herself on top of you at her own preferred pace and positioning.

Tip #5: Communication Is Key
Communicating about and during sex is extremely important and is especially helpful when it’s your (or her) first time. Ask her “does that feel good?” to find out if what you’re doing is pleasurable to her. Gently tell her to move into positions and to help out where needed as well. If you don’t want to go all the way and want to limit the amount of intimacy tell her something like “I think it would be better if we waited…”. Any thing else you need or want along the way – just talk about it with her and chances are that it will lead to a better first experience.
Bonus Tip: Get A Sex Buddy Or Girlfriend
The way to true sexual skill and confidence is significant experimentation and regular practice. The best way to do this is have a sex partner or girlfriend that you can have a lots and lots of sex with. Regular sex with my first girlfriend turned me from a complete amateur to a complete pro in the bedroom in about three months and this, in turn, increased my confidence with women and in life significantly. You can and should do the same thing and practice sex a lot with your first sex buddy or girlfriend too.
I hope the above tips help any of the less sexually experienced guys reading this to feel more confident about their first time/s and to move towards becoming a skilled romantic partner.
Have fun guys!