I’m currently coaching three programs.
These programs are currently all face to face and require you to be
able to either live in Sydney or get to Sydney for the theory sessions.
The courses currently available are:
Dating Mastery – “Learn to sleep with almost any woman in 3 dates or less…”
Phone and Text Mastery – “Start turning more numbers into dates and use your phone to get laid…”
Internet Dating Mastery – “Learn the easiest way to meet and date an almost unlimited supply of attractive women…”
For more details, click the links below:
Dating Mastery – LINK
Phone and Text Mastery – LINK
Internet Dating Mastery – LINK
Sunday, August 4, 2013
Testimonials
“Adam’s Day game coaching has helped me to be able to approach and
attract the type of girls I like relatively easily within just a few
sessions. On my most recent session with him I got 5 numbers out of 6
approaches and a few of these girls I would consider to be solid 8′s who
I’d be very happy to date…”
-Martin
—–
“I recently decided to embark on the Day Game Mastery course knowing I would be in great hands with Adam. While I am just over half way through the course, I have already had some absolutely amazing results and I see this course as something really special.
Adam gives so much of himself to his students, in session and during the week when I am practising on my own. I have messaged him, posted on the forums, emailed and called him regarding topics about Day Game, but also texting and dates. Every time he has responded quickly and with enthusiasm, wisdom and a genuine willingness to see me become the best I can be.
Last Saturday we were supposed to have a 3 hour session, but because he had some free time, the session turned into 4.5 hours. Throughout the whole day he pushed me where I needed it, analysed each interaction and offered suggestions as to how to improve. It was an amazing experience that I carried with me throughout the day and ended up doing close to 40 approaches with Adam, by myself and with another SOA student and got a total of eight numbers by the end of the day. Seven of the eight have replied to me and I’ve already arranged dates with two of them with more to come.
If you truly want to become amazing at Day Game, I highly recommend this course.”
-Nick
—–
“Adam’s Day Game Mastery course helped me to regain some confidence and to start dating some really great girls. I’m at the point now where I almost have too many girls to date and I need to find more time in my life to be able to date them all. I’d recommend Day Game Mastery to anyone who wants to learn how to meet women during the day.”
-Pav
—–
“Day Game Adam is truly an expert at Day Game and is a fantastic coach. He helped me get 5 numbers from attractive girls in just over one hour of approaching and it was only my second time ever trying Day Game!”
-Dan S
—–
“Day Game Adam is super supportive and extremely optimistic which, along with some great techniques he shared with me, helped me to overcome my anxiety about approaching women and led to me having some great interactions with some fantastic women. I’m very happy to have learned Day Game from such an excellent coach and teacher.”
-Flavio
—–
“Day Game Adam is extremely knowledgeable about Day Game and was always spot on with giving me suggestions to improve interactions and correct mistakes I was making which instantly lead to better results.”
-Ed
—–
“I learned a LOT from my time with Day Game Adam and I can now pickup women during the day relatively easily. I recommend him highly for anyone wanting to learn Day Game.”
-Blair
—–
“The best thing about Adam isn’t the fact that he’s got solid pick-up skills and can basically get the girl anytime he likes. It isn’t the fact that he’s constantly working on himself and pushing his own boundaries so that he’s always getting better. It isn’t even the fact that he built his ability to charm and seduce women from the ground up so he can help people at any stage along the way.
The best thing is the fact he doesn’t try to change you. He’ll take who you are and show you how to be naturally charming. This means you’re not trying to fake it. Your interactions are more relaxed and flow more easily. The advice he gives you will be different to the advice he gives the next guy – because no two people are the same. The only way he can do this is to really genuinely care about the people he’s teaching. He’s one of the best out there at pickup – but he’s even better at being a coach.”
-Stuart
—–
“Adam, I just want to thank you for your Day Game Training which has totally transformed my dating life.
With your help I have been able to get phone numbers from one in four girls I approach. I am able to do this wearing just t-shirt and jeans.
Within a week of finishing the Day Game course I was sleeping with a girl I approached in the city.
I am now dating a girl who really digs me who I find really attractive who I met in the CBD on a Monday around 2pm. She tells me she wouldn’t have been as interested in me if we met in a bar as she doesn’t like them or the guys who go to them.
I think Day Game is much more suitable for me as I am not an outwardly cool, tough alpha male which has made bars and clubs disheartening. My friendly, non-threatening face and demeanor seem more suited to Day Game – and I just wish I had focused my energies on this abundant, low-competition field earlier.”
-Ben
—–
“I now have multiple attractive women in my life thanks to learning Day Game with Adam. I highly recommend the course to anyone wanting to learn what I consider to be the BEST way to meet women.”
-Victor
-Martin
—–
“I recently decided to embark on the Day Game Mastery course knowing I would be in great hands with Adam. While I am just over half way through the course, I have already had some absolutely amazing results and I see this course as something really special.
Adam gives so much of himself to his students, in session and during the week when I am practising on my own. I have messaged him, posted on the forums, emailed and called him regarding topics about Day Game, but also texting and dates. Every time he has responded quickly and with enthusiasm, wisdom and a genuine willingness to see me become the best I can be.
Last Saturday we were supposed to have a 3 hour session, but because he had some free time, the session turned into 4.5 hours. Throughout the whole day he pushed me where I needed it, analysed each interaction and offered suggestions as to how to improve. It was an amazing experience that I carried with me throughout the day and ended up doing close to 40 approaches with Adam, by myself and with another SOA student and got a total of eight numbers by the end of the day. Seven of the eight have replied to me and I’ve already arranged dates with two of them with more to come.
If you truly want to become amazing at Day Game, I highly recommend this course.”
-Nick
—–
“Adam’s Day Game Mastery course helped me to regain some confidence and to start dating some really great girls. I’m at the point now where I almost have too many girls to date and I need to find more time in my life to be able to date them all. I’d recommend Day Game Mastery to anyone who wants to learn how to meet women during the day.”
-Pav
—–
“Day Game Adam is truly an expert at Day Game and is a fantastic coach. He helped me get 5 numbers from attractive girls in just over one hour of approaching and it was only my second time ever trying Day Game!”
-Dan S
—–
“Day Game Adam is super supportive and extremely optimistic which, along with some great techniques he shared with me, helped me to overcome my anxiety about approaching women and led to me having some great interactions with some fantastic women. I’m very happy to have learned Day Game from such an excellent coach and teacher.”
-Flavio
—–
“Day Game Adam is extremely knowledgeable about Day Game and was always spot on with giving me suggestions to improve interactions and correct mistakes I was making which instantly lead to better results.”
-Ed
—–
“I learned a LOT from my time with Day Game Adam and I can now pickup women during the day relatively easily. I recommend him highly for anyone wanting to learn Day Game.”
-Blair
—–
“The best thing about Adam isn’t the fact that he’s got solid pick-up skills and can basically get the girl anytime he likes. It isn’t the fact that he’s constantly working on himself and pushing his own boundaries so that he’s always getting better. It isn’t even the fact that he built his ability to charm and seduce women from the ground up so he can help people at any stage along the way.
The best thing is the fact he doesn’t try to change you. He’ll take who you are and show you how to be naturally charming. This means you’re not trying to fake it. Your interactions are more relaxed and flow more easily. The advice he gives you will be different to the advice he gives the next guy – because no two people are the same. The only way he can do this is to really genuinely care about the people he’s teaching. He’s one of the best out there at pickup – but he’s even better at being a coach.”
-Stuart
—–
“Adam, I just want to thank you for your Day Game Training which has totally transformed my dating life.
With your help I have been able to get phone numbers from one in four girls I approach. I am able to do this wearing just t-shirt and jeans.
Within a week of finishing the Day Game course I was sleeping with a girl I approached in the city.
I am now dating a girl who really digs me who I find really attractive who I met in the CBD on a Monday around 2pm. She tells me she wouldn’t have been as interested in me if we met in a bar as she doesn’t like them or the guys who go to them.
I think Day Game is much more suitable for me as I am not an outwardly cool, tough alpha male which has made bars and clubs disheartening. My friendly, non-threatening face and demeanor seem more suited to Day Game – and I just wish I had focused my energies on this abundant, low-competition field earlier.”
-Ben
—–
“I now have multiple attractive women in my life thanks to learning Day Game with Adam. I highly recommend the course to anyone wanting to learn what I consider to be the BEST way to meet women.”
-Victor
ABOUT
“Day Game Adam” got his name from his preference for meeting and
attracting beautiful women in the day time rather than at night like so
many others choose to do.
His knowledge of Day Game is unmatched and, as a School of Attraction Coach, his dedication to helping students achieve their pickup and dating goals is exceptional.
Adam is also an expert in both dating and phone and text game and he currently teaches both of these subjects as advanced modules for School of Attraction Graduates.
His knowledge of Day Game is unmatched and, as a School of Attraction Coach, his dedication to helping students achieve their pickup and dating goals is exceptional.
Adam is also an expert in both dating and phone and text game and he currently teaches both of these subjects as advanced modules for School of Attraction Graduates.
Convert More Numbers To Dates
Women are busy creatures. They have lots of stuff to do, lots of
places to go and lots of people to talk to (friends, family etc.).
Women are also very emotional so whether they will or will not do something very often depends on how they feel at a particular time.
Knowing how busy women are and how emotional they are too, it is quite likely that many of them may not reply to every single SMS or call they get.
So then, what should you do if you contact a girl and she doesn’t reply or answer your call?
Should you give up on her and move on to the next girl?
Definitely not! That would be immature and wasteful.
Instead, I suggest that you simply wait a few day and try again.
In fact, what I advise is to make sure you try at least 3 times with every number you get with at least one of those attempts being a phone call.
Applying this three strike rule with every number you get shows that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, develops your persistence muscles and increases your chances of getting dates.
It is simply the right thing to do if you want to be excellent with women.
But wheres the prove that this actually works you ask?
Right here:
Happy now?
Great. Now repeat the following rule after me:
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and again
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and one more time (three is the magic number after all)
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
Excellent, now start applying and benefiting from this rule!
Women are also very emotional so whether they will or will not do something very often depends on how they feel at a particular time.
Knowing how busy women are and how emotional they are too, it is quite likely that many of them may not reply to every single SMS or call they get.
So then, what should you do if you contact a girl and she doesn’t reply or answer your call?
Should you give up on her and move on to the next girl?
Definitely not! That would be immature and wasteful.
Instead, I suggest that you simply wait a few day and try again.
In fact, what I advise is to make sure you try at least 3 times with every number you get with at least one of those attempts being a phone call.
Applying this three strike rule with every number you get shows that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, develops your persistence muscles and increases your chances of getting dates.
It is simply the right thing to do if you want to be excellent with women.
But wheres the prove that this actually works you ask?
Right here:
Great. Now repeat the following rule after me:
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and again
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and one more time (three is the magic number after all)
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
Excellent, now start applying and benefiting from this rule!
Interview: Special K (School of Attraction student)
Special K is one of the most intelligent students I have ever
coached. He figured out a lot of stuff much faster than the average
student and did certain things that I wish I had done when I was his
age. I also really respect his effort levels in every session that I
coached him in and also in recording his journey in extensive detail on
the School of Attraction private forums.
In the following interview, Special K shares details of his journey and some of his secrets that helped him to achieve outstanding success in a relatively short period of time.
DayGameAdam: What was your history like with women prior to joining School of Attraction?
My history with women before School of Attraction was very poor. I had zero female friends in high school and very little contact with girls in general due to my shyness. It took a lot of effort for me to finally sleep with one girl at the age of 19. I saw her a few times after that and then she disappeared. So all in all, I had very little experience and history with women.
DayGameAdam: What made you want to join School of Attraction’s Since Seduction Intensive course?
After a few years of time and effort spent on trying to develop my “pick up” skills, I had basically zero results and the frustration took a big toll on my overall sense of self worth. After not being able to sleep with a single girl in two separate two month backpacking trips in Europe, with my initial expectations set very high, I made one of the most radical but best decisions of my life – I decided to move out of home and move to the city and to also enroll in in School of Attraction’s Sincere Seduction Intensive program. I hoped that doing these two things would once and for all get my dating life handled and I am happy to say that I achieved my goal and I haven’t looked back ever since then.
DayGameAdam: You are a very smart guy and a very fast learner, what do you personally think are the keys to learning and success in this game? What do you think you do better than most other guys?
I think the key to learning and success in this game is consistency and focus. There are certain “aspects” of this game where guys get stuck – such as making a good strong first impression with girls, texting or following up with girls for dates, or planning the dates themselves. I find that a lot of guys get stuck on these areas without ever knowing “why” and “how they can improve on it”. Thus, they may go on for months and months doing the same thing, get frustrated with the results and soon give up. I believe what I do better than most guys is simplifying everything, focusing on one aspect of game at a time, and being consistent in tackling that “sticking point” until I solve it for good. I also agree with School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien D, that setting SMART goals and keeping a good journal are very important to success too.
DayGameAdam: I totally agree about the value of focusing on specific sticking points until you have mastered them. What is an example of a particular area that you achieved massive improvement in by focusing on it intently and intelligently?
An example I have achieved a massive improvement on is sexual escalation. Before joining the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, I always seemed to have very “nice” conversation with girls in nightclubs which never went anywhere. I was essentially scared to make my intentions clear and to let the girl know I’m sexually interested in her. When this came to my awareness thanks to some School of Attraction coaching, I focused on this aspect of my game for more than a whole month. Firstly, it was just learning to sexually compliment girls, then I focused on sexually screening girls then telling sexual stories and pushing the boundaries further and further. I’m now really comfortable with this aspect of my game and my interactions have improved massively as a result.
DayGameAdam: Having dated a number of women and spent considerable time with many of them during the time you were doing the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, what are some of the key things you’ve learned about and from women?
One of the key things I learned about women is that they seem to look for and are drawn to men who have integrity, humour and the self trust to take the leading role. I found that I nearly always had to be the one to initiate talking to a girl, asking for her number, texting her, asking her out and planning dates for her. For the guys out there hoping for girls to just fall on their lap, its not going to happen by itself! Another thing I learned about women is that they enjoy sex just as much as men do. That’s super exciting news isn’t it?
DayGameAdam: I agree with you that a guy should take the lead throughout the pickup, dating and relationship process. Can you share a personal example where you took the lead and and made things happen where other guys or perhaps an earlier version of you may have faltered?
An example of where I took the lead was on many of my dates where I decided where to go next, when to go and what we’ll do. Girls seemed to love a man who has a plan. Whenever I have forgotten to plan the date well or I fail to take the lead I’m quickly reminded of the importance of taking the lead by her losing interest. I now try to plan all my dates really intelligently so that I am leading the experience and usually good things happen as a result of this.
DayGameAdam: What were some of your main highlight and achievement during the Sincere Seduction Intensive course?
One of the main highlights for me was meeting an amazing girl in the first session of the course during the daytime when you were coaching me. I clicked with her extremely well on the first date, then I took her on an AMAZING dates afterwards and I have been sleeping with her and spending time with her consistently for the last few months since then. She is a really top notch girl and I’m so glad to have met her and for her to be part of my life now.
One of my other proudest moment was getting my first “same night lay” with another very nice girl that I met at the Ivy Nightclub. Since bringing her home that night I’ve built and maintained a very good sexual relationship with her.
DayGameAdam: They both sound like awesome achievements. Please share a bit about what do you appreciate and enjoy most about your main girl that you met in your first day game session and what it’s like having her in your life?
I appreciate and enjoy her energetic, positive, bubbly, adventurous and sometimes crazy personality. I feel excited about meeting her every single time even though we’ve already been seeing each other for three months already. I really appreciate having her in my life as she’s taught me a lot about what I appreciate in women and even though we may not end up not being together forever (as she’s returning home overseas in a few months), we’ve still managed to create an amazing memory for each other.
DayGameAdam: Originally I don’t think you were a big fan of night game but it’s great to see you turn that around. What happened to make you start enjoying night game more and please tell us a little bit about your first Same Night Lay.
I started enjoying nightgame when I was introduced to the idea of focusing on the process and not the result. Night game pick up is in general a very difficult skill to learn. There are lots of guys out to pick up and women generally won’t give you the time of day unless you do things well. As a result, it was a very frustrating thing for me at first as I never got any results. However, when I switched my thinking to focusing on improving my process and skillset of pick up, it became an interesting game of self improvement for me. My first same night lay was quite straight forward. I talked to a girl, her friends disappeared, I bounced her around the club, walked her outside to get something to eat at McDonalds and then walked her back to my home. When pick up is done right, it can very easy and straight forward in my opinion.
DayGameAdam: Now that you are near the end of the main part of the Sincere Seduction Intensive course and are about to begin mentoring other School of Attraction students, what are some of the main things you learned about yourself and pickup and dating? How much have you improved your confidence and skills and ability with women over the past 10 weeks or so?
The main things I’ve learnt about myself is that I am DEFINITELY more than capable of getting the romantic life that I want. I’ve really learnt to appreciate my own strengths and also to identify my weaknesses and work hard on improving them. My confidence has skyrocketed as a result of my continued action and my skills and abilities with women have improved dramatically too. I used to be the type of guy who approached lots of girls and rarely got dates. Now I can approach, date as well as sleep with a fair share of girls relatively easily. More importantly, I’ve learnt how to continue improving myself well into the foreseeable future even after the course has ended. I look forward to starting mentoring and helping other School of Attraction students to achieve their own success soon too.
In the following interview, Special K shares details of his journey and some of his secrets that helped him to achieve outstanding success in a relatively short period of time.
DayGameAdam: What was your history like with women prior to joining School of Attraction?
My history with women before School of Attraction was very poor. I had zero female friends in high school and very little contact with girls in general due to my shyness. It took a lot of effort for me to finally sleep with one girl at the age of 19. I saw her a few times after that and then she disappeared. So all in all, I had very little experience and history with women.
DayGameAdam: What made you want to join School of Attraction’s Since Seduction Intensive course?
After a few years of time and effort spent on trying to develop my “pick up” skills, I had basically zero results and the frustration took a big toll on my overall sense of self worth. After not being able to sleep with a single girl in two separate two month backpacking trips in Europe, with my initial expectations set very high, I made one of the most radical but best decisions of my life – I decided to move out of home and move to the city and to also enroll in in School of Attraction’s Sincere Seduction Intensive program. I hoped that doing these two things would once and for all get my dating life handled and I am happy to say that I achieved my goal and I haven’t looked back ever since then.
DayGameAdam: You are a very smart guy and a very fast learner, what do you personally think are the keys to learning and success in this game? What do you think you do better than most other guys?
I think the key to learning and success in this game is consistency and focus. There are certain “aspects” of this game where guys get stuck – such as making a good strong first impression with girls, texting or following up with girls for dates, or planning the dates themselves. I find that a lot of guys get stuck on these areas without ever knowing “why” and “how they can improve on it”. Thus, they may go on for months and months doing the same thing, get frustrated with the results and soon give up. I believe what I do better than most guys is simplifying everything, focusing on one aspect of game at a time, and being consistent in tackling that “sticking point” until I solve it for good. I also agree with School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien D, that setting SMART goals and keeping a good journal are very important to success too.
DayGameAdam: I totally agree about the value of focusing on specific sticking points until you have mastered them. What is an example of a particular area that you achieved massive improvement in by focusing on it intently and intelligently?
An example I have achieved a massive improvement on is sexual escalation. Before joining the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, I always seemed to have very “nice” conversation with girls in nightclubs which never went anywhere. I was essentially scared to make my intentions clear and to let the girl know I’m sexually interested in her. When this came to my awareness thanks to some School of Attraction coaching, I focused on this aspect of my game for more than a whole month. Firstly, it was just learning to sexually compliment girls, then I focused on sexually screening girls then telling sexual stories and pushing the boundaries further and further. I’m now really comfortable with this aspect of my game and my interactions have improved massively as a result.
DayGameAdam: Having dated a number of women and spent considerable time with many of them during the time you were doing the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, what are some of the key things you’ve learned about and from women?
One of the key things I learned about women is that they seem to look for and are drawn to men who have integrity, humour and the self trust to take the leading role. I found that I nearly always had to be the one to initiate talking to a girl, asking for her number, texting her, asking her out and planning dates for her. For the guys out there hoping for girls to just fall on their lap, its not going to happen by itself! Another thing I learned about women is that they enjoy sex just as much as men do. That’s super exciting news isn’t it?
DayGameAdam: I agree with you that a guy should take the lead throughout the pickup, dating and relationship process. Can you share a personal example where you took the lead and and made things happen where other guys or perhaps an earlier version of you may have faltered?
An example of where I took the lead was on many of my dates where I decided where to go next, when to go and what we’ll do. Girls seemed to love a man who has a plan. Whenever I have forgotten to plan the date well or I fail to take the lead I’m quickly reminded of the importance of taking the lead by her losing interest. I now try to plan all my dates really intelligently so that I am leading the experience and usually good things happen as a result of this.
DayGameAdam: What were some of your main highlight and achievement during the Sincere Seduction Intensive course?
One of the main highlights for me was meeting an amazing girl in the first session of the course during the daytime when you were coaching me. I clicked with her extremely well on the first date, then I took her on an AMAZING dates afterwards and I have been sleeping with her and spending time with her consistently for the last few months since then. She is a really top notch girl and I’m so glad to have met her and for her to be part of my life now.
One of my other proudest moment was getting my first “same night lay” with another very nice girl that I met at the Ivy Nightclub. Since bringing her home that night I’ve built and maintained a very good sexual relationship with her.
DayGameAdam: They both sound like awesome achievements. Please share a bit about what do you appreciate and enjoy most about your main girl that you met in your first day game session and what it’s like having her in your life?
I appreciate and enjoy her energetic, positive, bubbly, adventurous and sometimes crazy personality. I feel excited about meeting her every single time even though we’ve already been seeing each other for three months already. I really appreciate having her in my life as she’s taught me a lot about what I appreciate in women and even though we may not end up not being together forever (as she’s returning home overseas in a few months), we’ve still managed to create an amazing memory for each other.
DayGameAdam: Originally I don’t think you were a big fan of night game but it’s great to see you turn that around. What happened to make you start enjoying night game more and please tell us a little bit about your first Same Night Lay.
I started enjoying nightgame when I was introduced to the idea of focusing on the process and not the result. Night game pick up is in general a very difficult skill to learn. There are lots of guys out to pick up and women generally won’t give you the time of day unless you do things well. As a result, it was a very frustrating thing for me at first as I never got any results. However, when I switched my thinking to focusing on improving my process and skillset of pick up, it became an interesting game of self improvement for me. My first same night lay was quite straight forward. I talked to a girl, her friends disappeared, I bounced her around the club, walked her outside to get something to eat at McDonalds and then walked her back to my home. When pick up is done right, it can very easy and straight forward in my opinion.
DayGameAdam: Now that you are near the end of the main part of the Sincere Seduction Intensive course and are about to begin mentoring other School of Attraction students, what are some of the main things you learned about yourself and pickup and dating? How much have you improved your confidence and skills and ability with women over the past 10 weeks or so?
The main things I’ve learnt about myself is that I am DEFINITELY more than capable of getting the romantic life that I want. I’ve really learnt to appreciate my own strengths and also to identify my weaknesses and work hard on improving them. My confidence has skyrocketed as a result of my continued action and my skills and abilities with women have improved dramatically too. I used to be the type of guy who approached lots of girls and rarely got dates. Now I can approach, date as well as sleep with a fair share of girls relatively easily. More importantly, I’ve learnt how to continue improving myself well into the foreseeable future even after the course has ended. I look forward to starting mentoring and helping other School of Attraction students to achieve their own success soon too.
Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins
A few guys who still have their V cards have recently asked me for
sex advice. Most of them have a significant amount of anxiety around
their lack of sexual experience.
I decided to combine my top five sex tips for virgins (and 1 bonus tip) and put them into an article that I hope can help the less sexually experienced guys out there to prepare for and hopefully enjoy their first time.
Here’s my Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins:
Tip #1: Become A Good Kisser
If you’d like to really increase your confidence in your ability to please women in the bedroom, how about learning how to pleasure them outside of the bedroom first by learning to become a great kisser? A good kisser is relaxed, smooth and understands how to gently increase the levels of passion and intensity at a steady pace. Developing these traits will create tremendous pleasure for almost any women you kiss and it also translates directly to the type of attitude you should eventually have in the bedroom as well.
Tip #2 Don’t Forget Foreplay
When you do decide to go all the way and take things to the bedroom, don’t forget the importance of foreplay to prepare, enhance and extend the love making process. From kissing to touching to licking to whatever you or her feels like are all great options to make the entire sexual experience much more pleasurable and more successful for both of you. The actual sexual intercourse is a great main event but surround it a great opening act and plentiful sideshows and good things will happen.
Tip #3: Limit The Level Of Intimacy
To remove a lot of pressure from yourself to be an amazing lover the very first time, I recommend that you consider taking baby steps towards having full sex. For a first timer, it’s much easier to gently slide your finger and/or your tongue inside of her and please her that way than it is to have full sex – and it can be just as fun and pleasurable as well. She will probably return the favor with her hand or tongue as well but either way, you still made important progress that you can build on over time. Once touching and licking her sexual areas becomes easier and easier, you can then start moving towards full sex in the future love making sessions.
Tip #4: Keep It Simple
When it is time to have full sex, it’s probably not the best idea to choose difficult positions that even yoga instructors or Olympic gymnasts would find difficult for your first attempt. Instead, start with the easiest position possible and go from there. Some of the easiest sexual positions to consider include:
Communicating about and during sex is extremely important and is especially helpful when it’s your (or her) first time. Ask her “does that feel good?” to find out if what you’re doing is pleasurable to her. Gently tell her to move into positions and to help out where needed as well. If you don’t want to go all the way and want to limit the amount of intimacy tell her something like “I think it would be better if we waited…”. Any thing else you need or want along the way – just talk about it with her and chances are that it will lead to a better first experience.
Bonus Tip: Get A Sex Buddy Or Girlfriend
The way to true sexual skill and confidence is significant experimentation and regular practice. The best way to do this is have a sex partner or girlfriend that you can have a lots and lots of sex with. Regular sex with my first girlfriend turned me from a complete amateur to a complete pro in the bedroom in about three months and this, in turn, increased my confidence with women and in life significantly. You can and should do the same thing and practice sex a lot with your first sex buddy or girlfriend too.
I hope the above tips help any of the less sexually experienced guys reading this to feel more confident about their first time/s and to move towards becoming a skilled romantic partner.
Have fun guys!
I decided to combine my top five sex tips for virgins (and 1 bonus tip) and put them into an article that I hope can help the less sexually experienced guys out there to prepare for and hopefully enjoy their first time.
Here’s my Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins:
Tip #1: Become A Good Kisser
If you’d like to really increase your confidence in your ability to please women in the bedroom, how about learning how to pleasure them outside of the bedroom first by learning to become a great kisser? A good kisser is relaxed, smooth and understands how to gently increase the levels of passion and intensity at a steady pace. Developing these traits will create tremendous pleasure for almost any women you kiss and it also translates directly to the type of attitude you should eventually have in the bedroom as well.
Tip #2 Don’t Forget Foreplay
When you do decide to go all the way and take things to the bedroom, don’t forget the importance of foreplay to prepare, enhance and extend the love making process. From kissing to touching to licking to whatever you or her feels like are all great options to make the entire sexual experience much more pleasurable and more successful for both of you. The actual sexual intercourse is a great main event but surround it a great opening act and plentiful sideshows and good things will happen.
Tip #3: Limit The Level Of Intimacy
To remove a lot of pressure from yourself to be an amazing lover the very first time, I recommend that you consider taking baby steps towards having full sex. For a first timer, it’s much easier to gently slide your finger and/or your tongue inside of her and please her that way than it is to have full sex – and it can be just as fun and pleasurable as well. She will probably return the favor with her hand or tongue as well but either way, you still made important progress that you can build on over time. Once touching and licking her sexual areas becomes easier and easier, you can then start moving towards full sex in the future love making sessions.
Tip #4: Keep It Simple
When it is time to have full sex, it’s probably not the best idea to choose difficult positions that even yoga instructors or Olympic gymnasts would find difficult for your first attempt. Instead, start with the easiest position possible and go from there. Some of the easiest sexual positions to consider include:
- Missionary/deck chair – she lies on her back, put a pillow underneath her pelvis to elevate her for easier positioning then spread her legs and guide yourself inside her from a kneeling position.
- Spoon – she lays on her side facing away from you and you slide inside her from the side and slightly lower than her.
- Her on top – you lie flat on your back and she lowers herself on top of you at her own preferred pace and positioning.
Communicating about and during sex is extremely important and is especially helpful when it’s your (or her) first time. Ask her “does that feel good?” to find out if what you’re doing is pleasurable to her. Gently tell her to move into positions and to help out where needed as well. If you don’t want to go all the way and want to limit the amount of intimacy tell her something like “I think it would be better if we waited…”. Any thing else you need or want along the way – just talk about it with her and chances are that it will lead to a better first experience.
Bonus Tip: Get A Sex Buddy Or Girlfriend
The way to true sexual skill and confidence is significant experimentation and regular practice. The best way to do this is have a sex partner or girlfriend that you can have a lots and lots of sex with. Regular sex with my first girlfriend turned me from a complete amateur to a complete pro in the bedroom in about three months and this, in turn, increased my confidence with women and in life significantly. You can and should do the same thing and practice sex a lot with your first sex buddy or girlfriend too.
I hope the above tips help any of the less sexually experienced guys reading this to feel more confident about their first time/s and to move towards becoming a skilled romantic partner.
Have fun guys!
Phone and Text: The Ten Text Commandments
One of my favourite YouTube videos from School of Attraction Head
Coach, Damien Diecke, is the one he did on the Ten Text Commandments.
Watching this video and applying the information in it can significantly
improve your Phone and Text game.
Here’s my slightly rewarded version of the Ten Text Commandments and the original YouTube video is below:
1. Make Every Text Entertaining And/Or Leading
2. Make The First Message Personalized
3. Text within 24 Hours Of Getting Number
4. Spell Correctly
5. Avoid Geek Spelling
6. Don’t Lie
7. Give Every Girl A Nickname
8. Try To Set Up A Date Within 3 Days Of Getting Her Number
9. Text Every Other Day
10. Use Emoticons To Display Emotions
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=iDUZELERVkY
Here’s my slightly rewarded version of the Ten Text Commandments and the original YouTube video is below:
1. Make Every Text Entertaining And/Or Leading
2. Make The First Message Personalized
3. Text within 24 Hours Of Getting Number
4. Spell Correctly
5. Avoid Geek Spelling
6. Don’t Lie
7. Give Every Girl A Nickname
8. Try To Set Up A Date Within 3 Days Of Getting Her Number
9. Text Every Other Day
10. Use Emoticons To Display Emotions
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=iDUZELERVkY
She Didn’t Flake, You Just Gave Up Too Easily
If you were in a boxing match with someone and at some point you
threw a bad punch that missed the mark by a mile, what would you do?
Would you refocus your attention and try to make sure that your next few punches were straighter and harder and had a better chance of hitting the intended target OR would you give up and walk out of the ring right then and there?
I hope you’d choose the first option and keep on fighting.
I also hope you’d apply the same amount of persistence and resilience to pickup and dating as well.
Most people don’t.
In pickup and dating, what most people do is give up at the first sign of resistance or difficulty. For example:
Don’t let this happen to you.
Anytime some type or resistance or difficulty pops up – hang in there.
Be strong. Be committed. Be unaffected. Be persistent.
Don’t be the guy who has to get ten numbers to convert one of them into one date.
Be the guy who can get one number and plow through ten minor challenges to get her into bed.
Make the decision NOW to no longer give up too easily on the women you are interested in.
You owe it to yourself and to the women you are interested in to be the strong, attractive guy who goes after what he wants and no longer gives up easily.
Make it happen.
Would you refocus your attention and try to make sure that your next few punches were straighter and harder and had a better chance of hitting the intended target OR would you give up and walk out of the ring right then and there?
I hope you’d choose the first option and keep on fighting.
I also hope you’d apply the same amount of persistence and resilience to pickup and dating as well.
Most people don’t.
In pickup and dating, what most people do is give up at the first sign of resistance or difficulty. For example:
- She doesn’t laugh at one joke or respond well to something they say and the guy walks away
- She doesn’t respond to one text message and the guy stops messaging her
- She doesn’t answer one phone call and the guy stops calling her
- She cancels one date and the guy gives up on dating her
Don’t let this happen to you.
Anytime some type or resistance or difficulty pops up – hang in there.
Be strong. Be committed. Be unaffected. Be persistent.
Don’t be the guy who has to get ten numbers to convert one of them into one date.
Be the guy who can get one number and plow through ten minor challenges to get her into bed.
Make the decision NOW to no longer give up too easily on the women you are interested in.
You owe it to yourself and to the women you are interested in to be the strong, attractive guy who goes after what he wants and no longer gives up easily.
Make it happen.
30 Day Challenge: Close Everything
PROBLEM: not asking for numbers often enough
CHALLENGE: ask for her number every time an interaction goes for more than a set period of time (e.g. 3 minutes for Day Game and 10 minutes for Night Game)
Once guys get good at approaching, one of the next sticking points many of them have is not asking for numbers often enough.
I actually used to do this a lot myself and it used to frustrate me greatly. I think there’s an element of “I don’t want to wreck what we have by asking for her number and getting rejected” which is complete and utter nonsense and must be eliminated from our thoughts. Keep in mind that if you don’t ask for her number that she will walk out of your life and you will never see her again.
The way to fix this problem is to create a new habit of asking for her number every time an interaction goes for more than a few minutes (or whatever time period you specify that makes sense for the types of interactions you usually have).
It doesn’t matter if she’s girlfriend material or if she lives a bit far away or if she’s leaving in a few months, all that matters is that you attempt to close every time. Build this habit and good things will happen.
As always, I recommend you keep a record of your progress while doing this challenge and literally write as much as you can about what happens during it. Then at the end of the month, assess your progress and decide your next plan of action.
If you do undertake this challenge, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to give you some helpful feedback.
CHALLENGE: ask for her number every time an interaction goes for more than a set period of time (e.g. 3 minutes for Day Game and 10 minutes for Night Game)
Once guys get good at approaching, one of the next sticking points many of them have is not asking for numbers often enough.
I actually used to do this a lot myself and it used to frustrate me greatly. I think there’s an element of “I don’t want to wreck what we have by asking for her number and getting rejected” which is complete and utter nonsense and must be eliminated from our thoughts. Keep in mind that if you don’t ask for her number that she will walk out of your life and you will never see her again.
The way to fix this problem is to create a new habit of asking for her number every time an interaction goes for more than a few minutes (or whatever time period you specify that makes sense for the types of interactions you usually have).
It doesn’t matter if she’s girlfriend material or if she lives a bit far away or if she’s leaving in a few months, all that matters is that you attempt to close every time. Build this habit and good things will happen.
As always, I recommend you keep a record of your progress while doing this challenge and literally write as much as you can about what happens during it. Then at the end of the month, assess your progress and decide your next plan of action.
If you do undertake this challenge, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to give you some helpful feedback.
Interview: Andy (School of Attraction student)
Andy is one of the most popular School of Attraction students in
recent history – most likely because of his fun and friendly
personality, his generosity in helping and supporting others and his
ongoing presence on the School of Attraction members forums.
I first met Andy towards the end of his Masculine Confidence Intensive Course and could see straight away that he had a lot of potential for success with women and I am happy to have been able to help him further along his journey through the Day Game Mastery and Phone and Text Mastery courses and to eventually see him reach a point where his journey is basically complete and he can now pickup and sleep with girls relatively easily for the rest of his life.
Andy’s story is very much a story of perseverance, long term focus, massive action, embracing his natural strengths, overcoming his sticking points and enjoying the company of many beautiful women along the way as you’ll read below.
DayGameAdam: Please tell us a bit about your previous history with women and what made you want to join School Of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
My previous history with women pre-SOA was a bit of a mixed affair. It wasn’t that I was hopeless with women, I had 2 relationships that put together lasted 4 years. I had slept with a few attractive women as well but I had also slept with a lot of women that I probably shouldn’t have. I didn’t have high standards for myself and I couldn’t spot attraction. I was always unsure whether women liked me or not and I relied heavily on alcohol to talk with women. So the main reason for me joining SOA was to educate myself in how to become more confident with women, spot the signs of attraction and know what to do seamlessly after that.
DayGameAdam: Being able to seduce women without needing alcohol is a very powerful thing. For other guys that would like to try and remove the need for alcohol from their game, can you please tell us a bit about your experience with eliminating alcohol? Any tips and advice for others?
It’s a very powerful and rewarding experience. I remember the idea of going out and not drinking alcohol was completely foreign to me. I used to think that I needed “Dutch courage” to loosen up and get my mouth going but this eventually proved to be a limiting belief that I changed. I used to go out and party quite hard and just let loose while continuing drinking into the small hours. By that point if anything happened with a woman it was more by luck or chance than skill!! But I knew this dependence on alcohol was no good so I started to cut way back and viewed it as a matter of personal pride to be able to pick up with out alcohol and build up my natural confidence. The way I started to eliminate alcohol was to allow myself 5-6 beers on a night out with friends then gradually lower that to 3-4 then 1-2 and eventually none. It’s a fantastic experience seducing a women knowing that you and only you is responsible for what is happening – no alcohol or acting differently or anything else other than being your normal self to get a women in bed with you. For the last 9 months I haven’t had any alcohol whatsoever and my life has completely transformed for the better.
DayGameAdam: One thing that I really respect about you is that you had a very long term approach and no matter what happened you stayed on track and just kept making steady improvement until you eventually became extremely good with the whole seduction process. How important do you think having a long term focus was and what tips do you have to other guys that may usually struggle with staying on track over a longer period of time?
I think for me personally to maintain my steady progress I had to switch off to the success some of the other guys were having. Although I was happy for these guys, it was also a little disheartening to read other blogs and hear how other guys were being successful. Though in my mind I knew that if I consistently worked towards what I wanted that I would get there. In the beginning I was a massive fan of 30 day challenges where I would pick a specific area I wanted to improve on and work hard on just that subject for the next 30 days. I did this for approaching, connecting, building rapport, qualification (which was my favourite subject to do!). Also, I would advise new guys to remember why they are doing this as some guys can get carried away with the whole “game” thing and can lose perspective. Its easier to stay motivated and focused when you know what your overall goal is and what you really want from the course.
DayGameAdam: I agree that focusing on areas you need to improve and having a strong end point you are working towards are crucial for success in this game. I know some guys can achieve massive success in as little as three months or less but in general I think about one year is a more realistic time frame. How long did your journey roughly take and at what point did you realise you had achieved your goals?
I think the one year mark is spot on. Through my journey I watched many people hit massive highs after 2-3 months and then…….. nothing would happen to match those initial high points for a while so it would even itself out with some of the other guys who, having not had that initial success were still steadily on their way to achieving their end goals. I remember totally sucking on a few of my practicals and struggled badly to approach but still had high points where I got a Same Night Lay in the Ivy on my 4th practical only to then not feel like that again for a while. I think by the 7-8 month maek I had started to notice a mental shift happening in my attitude and ability and by the 10 month my journey was nearly complete. By the 1 year mark I had 2 lovely casual girlfriends and was confident in myself and my ability with women.
DayGameAdam: I think your personality is extremely well suited for Day Game as you are naturally a very friendly and charming guy. What advantages did you find with Day Game in terms of the types of interactions you had and the type of girls you met and any other things that you found particularly good about Day Game?
Firstly the main reason I liked Day Game was the fact that I could be more natural! I love meeting and connecting with someone and genuinely complimenting them. It is not fake, I don’t do it when I don’t mean it and it’s this aspect I enjoyed most about it. I also liked cutting through all the crap that can go with night game and having more spontaneous interactions. I also go for very sweet girls and tend to be attracted to shy girls as well which I struggled to find at night time. Though that is no slate on nightgame as I enjoyed it to an extent as well and I will be looking at mastering it this year too. I might add the other great thing about Day Game is that now I can incorporate it in to my everyday life and I no longer have to set aside time to go out and “game”. For example, yesterday I got on the wrong bus, got off and spoke to a hot girl at the bus stop and today I was on a date with her. It’s becoming seamlessly part of my everyday life which was my ultimate aim.
DayGameAdam: Another thing I enjoyed about watching your journey was seeing how many fun dates you had. A lot of guys seem to be too “approach focused” and as a result they miss out on dating some lovely girls and getting good at dating. Can you tell us a bit about how many dates you were having per month at your peak and how it helped complete your game? Any tips for guys who want to date more?
I can’t remember exactly but I was averaging around 3-4 dates per week and I remember in October I had 14 dates with 8 different girls. These days I’m all about dating!! The less effort and time I spend on approaching the better for me as I personally love dating.
The benefit you get from dating lots of different girls is that;
1. You become more confident and natural around women
2. You spot attraction and calibrate much faster which in turn helps you notice attraction everywhere!!
For me, it’s the most fun part as well because of the connections you make with women and the awesome time you have with them too. I definitely feel that by dating lots I became extremely comfortable around women and it took me from “fake it until you make it” to “I’ve made it” the point where you become naturally confident and it comes across to women. They can spot a genuinely confident guy and it makes it easier during the whole meet to sleep process.
If I could give guys just one tip to really help them to date more it would be this: “burn numbers into the ground!!” meaning push every number to it’s absolute truth and don’t be afraid about losing her in the process as you will learn more by pushing it to the limit rather than playing it safe. I remember there was a nurse that I met and from the day I approached her to our first date it was about 4 months!! But I pushed that number to the limit and persisted with it!! I did this with lots of numbers for numerous reasons.
These reasons being;
1. It was awesome practice for my phone game and it made me become a very persistent guy, which women like and respect
2. I learned that girls are busy, like hot girls are even busier than me and I have lots of interests. But by recognising this it helped me to not give up and build up my resolve even more to get them out on a date
3. Just because a girl won’t come out on a date straight away or doesn’t return all of your texts doesn’t mean she isn’t interested or can’t be persuaded to come out.
Remember not to take any of these things personally or to heart.
DayGameAdam: From what I saw, prior to joining SOA you had a lot of potential but you were perhaps just lacking a bit of confidence, direction and strategy and I consider you now to be at an elite level in terms of pick-up and seduction (and relationships). What would you say were some of the biggest lessons that you learned along the way and how helpful were the Scool of Attarction courses, coaches, mentors and community to helping you to achieve your potential?
One of the biggest lessons I learned was the art of DISCRETION. When you can master this, and not get carried away by your success or feel the need to boast then you realise that dating multiple women isn’t as impossible as you thought then you have it sussed! Another big lesson I learned was being PERSISTENT! By this I don’t mean be impossible to shake off and be creepy. Being irresistibly persistent got me more places and more dates than just giving up because the girl wouldn’t give me her number first time or she never replied to 2-3 of my texts, I would keep pushing in a playful way until I either got them out on a date or I was satisfied that I had done everything I could. Damien and yourself were both very influential in installing this mindset into me and I remember how much it helped with my phone game as well.
DayGameAdam: My hope for almost every School of Attracttion student is that they will date enough girls to eventually find a girl (or girls) that is their ideal partner and they make them their girlfriend. You met and dated some lovely girls during your journey. Did you find having one or two main girls to be enjoyable and can you tell us a bit about the relationships you eventually developed and how rewarding that was for you?
I had a lot of fun on my dating journey and really still enjoy the dating side of things. I ended up getting into semi-committed relationships with two lovely girls towards the end of 2011. Both girls were so completely different to each other but both were incredibly sweet and caring girls. Having relationships with these two girls was incrediably rewarding and enjoyable and I learned a lot about managing multiple girls and different relationships while seeing these girls as I dated them at the same time with some girls in between. The relationship I had with girlfriend number one was fantastic, she was beautiful, caring, lots of fun and amazing in bed! Unfortunately after a few months of dating her she had to return home and it was quite sad as we were and still are very much in love with each other. We stay in touch and still talk on the phone each week. I’m actually hoping to spend Christmas with her this year and travel a little with her too. With girlfriend number two, it took me 5-6 weeks to seduce and sleep with her. It was a great reward to keep pushing forward and not give up with her. That was 6 months ago and I still see her every week, normally just one day a week where we have a lot of fun and we still go on adventure dates and do romantic dates with each other but this relationship takes very little managing and leaves me free to persue other girls and other things that I want in my personal life. It’s all amazingly simple and easy now with her.
DayGameAdam: I remember there was a point where you were scared of one of your girlfriends falling in love with you so you very nearly broke up with her. I remember being very glad that you eventually decided to stay with her at that time. Can you explain a bit about what your thoughts where at that time and if you think you made the right decision to stay with her and why?
To be honest at that point I hadn’t realised how far I’d come, how much I had changed and where I was! I was scared of becoming inactive and thought my journey wasn’t complete. I thought that I would have to seduce 20+ hot women to prove over and over to myself that I had this ability for life and at that time I felt that getting too close to her and not perusing any new girls that I might go backwards. But when I thought about it, looked closely at what I had done, where I was at and the way that I felt I knew that I already had this ability and what I had learned was never going to leave me. It was a realisation that I was glad I made as I loved every second I spent with her and would never exchange that feeling of having someone really love and care for me and for me to feel the same way back. It’s far more rewarding that a one night stand or casual thing.
DayGameAdam: Looking back over your journey and seeing how far you’ve come from being a bit unsure of how to pick-up women when you first joined School of Attraction to now having a high level of skill and excellent understanding of the seduction process and having some beautiful girlfriends and an abundance of sex and romance in your life, how does it feel to be where you are now and how proud of yourself are you for making your journey a successful one?
I can whole heartedly say that joining School of Attraction was one of the best decisions of my life. It started off as a journey of becoming confident and more successful with women of a higher calibre, and became a never ending journey of self improvement. The things I have learned, the amazing people I have met on the way and the way the course opened up my eyes to just what can be achieved and learned if you dedicate your time and focus to something are all invaluable. I think that every guy that joins School of Attraction, regardless of where they finish should be proud of themselves for having the courage to sign up for something like this because it takes a lot to admit you need help in this area. The funny thing is I’m probably most proud of the way I was able to help other people, and pass on what I had been taught to them. I’m not saying every guy benefited from spending time with me but there were one or two guys that I mentored that I managed to make a big difference to and they actually proved to be the most satisfying moments for me.
I first met Andy towards the end of his Masculine Confidence Intensive Course and could see straight away that he had a lot of potential for success with women and I am happy to have been able to help him further along his journey through the Day Game Mastery and Phone and Text Mastery courses and to eventually see him reach a point where his journey is basically complete and he can now pickup and sleep with girls relatively easily for the rest of his life.
Andy’s story is very much a story of perseverance, long term focus, massive action, embracing his natural strengths, overcoming his sticking points and enjoying the company of many beautiful women along the way as you’ll read below.
DayGameAdam: Please tell us a bit about your previous history with women and what made you want to join School Of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
My previous history with women pre-SOA was a bit of a mixed affair. It wasn’t that I was hopeless with women, I had 2 relationships that put together lasted 4 years. I had slept with a few attractive women as well but I had also slept with a lot of women that I probably shouldn’t have. I didn’t have high standards for myself and I couldn’t spot attraction. I was always unsure whether women liked me or not and I relied heavily on alcohol to talk with women. So the main reason for me joining SOA was to educate myself in how to become more confident with women, spot the signs of attraction and know what to do seamlessly after that.
DayGameAdam: Being able to seduce women without needing alcohol is a very powerful thing. For other guys that would like to try and remove the need for alcohol from their game, can you please tell us a bit about your experience with eliminating alcohol? Any tips and advice for others?
It’s a very powerful and rewarding experience. I remember the idea of going out and not drinking alcohol was completely foreign to me. I used to think that I needed “Dutch courage” to loosen up and get my mouth going but this eventually proved to be a limiting belief that I changed. I used to go out and party quite hard and just let loose while continuing drinking into the small hours. By that point if anything happened with a woman it was more by luck or chance than skill!! But I knew this dependence on alcohol was no good so I started to cut way back and viewed it as a matter of personal pride to be able to pick up with out alcohol and build up my natural confidence. The way I started to eliminate alcohol was to allow myself 5-6 beers on a night out with friends then gradually lower that to 3-4 then 1-2 and eventually none. It’s a fantastic experience seducing a women knowing that you and only you is responsible for what is happening – no alcohol or acting differently or anything else other than being your normal self to get a women in bed with you. For the last 9 months I haven’t had any alcohol whatsoever and my life has completely transformed for the better.
DayGameAdam: One thing that I really respect about you is that you had a very long term approach and no matter what happened you stayed on track and just kept making steady improvement until you eventually became extremely good with the whole seduction process. How important do you think having a long term focus was and what tips do you have to other guys that may usually struggle with staying on track over a longer period of time?
I think for me personally to maintain my steady progress I had to switch off to the success some of the other guys were having. Although I was happy for these guys, it was also a little disheartening to read other blogs and hear how other guys were being successful. Though in my mind I knew that if I consistently worked towards what I wanted that I would get there. In the beginning I was a massive fan of 30 day challenges where I would pick a specific area I wanted to improve on and work hard on just that subject for the next 30 days. I did this for approaching, connecting, building rapport, qualification (which was my favourite subject to do!). Also, I would advise new guys to remember why they are doing this as some guys can get carried away with the whole “game” thing and can lose perspective. Its easier to stay motivated and focused when you know what your overall goal is and what you really want from the course.
DayGameAdam: I agree that focusing on areas you need to improve and having a strong end point you are working towards are crucial for success in this game. I know some guys can achieve massive success in as little as three months or less but in general I think about one year is a more realistic time frame. How long did your journey roughly take and at what point did you realise you had achieved your goals?
I think the one year mark is spot on. Through my journey I watched many people hit massive highs after 2-3 months and then…….. nothing would happen to match those initial high points for a while so it would even itself out with some of the other guys who, having not had that initial success were still steadily on their way to achieving their end goals. I remember totally sucking on a few of my practicals and struggled badly to approach but still had high points where I got a Same Night Lay in the Ivy on my 4th practical only to then not feel like that again for a while. I think by the 7-8 month maek I had started to notice a mental shift happening in my attitude and ability and by the 10 month my journey was nearly complete. By the 1 year mark I had 2 lovely casual girlfriends and was confident in myself and my ability with women.
DayGameAdam: I think your personality is extremely well suited for Day Game as you are naturally a very friendly and charming guy. What advantages did you find with Day Game in terms of the types of interactions you had and the type of girls you met and any other things that you found particularly good about Day Game?
Firstly the main reason I liked Day Game was the fact that I could be more natural! I love meeting and connecting with someone and genuinely complimenting them. It is not fake, I don’t do it when I don’t mean it and it’s this aspect I enjoyed most about it. I also liked cutting through all the crap that can go with night game and having more spontaneous interactions. I also go for very sweet girls and tend to be attracted to shy girls as well which I struggled to find at night time. Though that is no slate on nightgame as I enjoyed it to an extent as well and I will be looking at mastering it this year too. I might add the other great thing about Day Game is that now I can incorporate it in to my everyday life and I no longer have to set aside time to go out and “game”. For example, yesterday I got on the wrong bus, got off and spoke to a hot girl at the bus stop and today I was on a date with her. It’s becoming seamlessly part of my everyday life which was my ultimate aim.
DayGameAdam: Another thing I enjoyed about watching your journey was seeing how many fun dates you had. A lot of guys seem to be too “approach focused” and as a result they miss out on dating some lovely girls and getting good at dating. Can you tell us a bit about how many dates you were having per month at your peak and how it helped complete your game? Any tips for guys who want to date more?
I can’t remember exactly but I was averaging around 3-4 dates per week and I remember in October I had 14 dates with 8 different girls. These days I’m all about dating!! The less effort and time I spend on approaching the better for me as I personally love dating.
The benefit you get from dating lots of different girls is that;
1. You become more confident and natural around women
2. You spot attraction and calibrate much faster which in turn helps you notice attraction everywhere!!
For me, it’s the most fun part as well because of the connections you make with women and the awesome time you have with them too. I definitely feel that by dating lots I became extremely comfortable around women and it took me from “fake it until you make it” to “I’ve made it” the point where you become naturally confident and it comes across to women. They can spot a genuinely confident guy and it makes it easier during the whole meet to sleep process.
If I could give guys just one tip to really help them to date more it would be this: “burn numbers into the ground!!” meaning push every number to it’s absolute truth and don’t be afraid about losing her in the process as you will learn more by pushing it to the limit rather than playing it safe. I remember there was a nurse that I met and from the day I approached her to our first date it was about 4 months!! But I pushed that number to the limit and persisted with it!! I did this with lots of numbers for numerous reasons.
These reasons being;
1. It was awesome practice for my phone game and it made me become a very persistent guy, which women like and respect
2. I learned that girls are busy, like hot girls are even busier than me and I have lots of interests. But by recognising this it helped me to not give up and build up my resolve even more to get them out on a date
3. Just because a girl won’t come out on a date straight away or doesn’t return all of your texts doesn’t mean she isn’t interested or can’t be persuaded to come out.
Remember not to take any of these things personally or to heart.
DayGameAdam: From what I saw, prior to joining SOA you had a lot of potential but you were perhaps just lacking a bit of confidence, direction and strategy and I consider you now to be at an elite level in terms of pick-up and seduction (and relationships). What would you say were some of the biggest lessons that you learned along the way and how helpful were the Scool of Attarction courses, coaches, mentors and community to helping you to achieve your potential?
One of the biggest lessons I learned was the art of DISCRETION. When you can master this, and not get carried away by your success or feel the need to boast then you realise that dating multiple women isn’t as impossible as you thought then you have it sussed! Another big lesson I learned was being PERSISTENT! By this I don’t mean be impossible to shake off and be creepy. Being irresistibly persistent got me more places and more dates than just giving up because the girl wouldn’t give me her number first time or she never replied to 2-3 of my texts, I would keep pushing in a playful way until I either got them out on a date or I was satisfied that I had done everything I could. Damien and yourself were both very influential in installing this mindset into me and I remember how much it helped with my phone game as well.
DayGameAdam: My hope for almost every School of Attracttion student is that they will date enough girls to eventually find a girl (or girls) that is their ideal partner and they make them their girlfriend. You met and dated some lovely girls during your journey. Did you find having one or two main girls to be enjoyable and can you tell us a bit about the relationships you eventually developed and how rewarding that was for you?
I had a lot of fun on my dating journey and really still enjoy the dating side of things. I ended up getting into semi-committed relationships with two lovely girls towards the end of 2011. Both girls were so completely different to each other but both were incredibly sweet and caring girls. Having relationships with these two girls was incrediably rewarding and enjoyable and I learned a lot about managing multiple girls and different relationships while seeing these girls as I dated them at the same time with some girls in between. The relationship I had with girlfriend number one was fantastic, she was beautiful, caring, lots of fun and amazing in bed! Unfortunately after a few months of dating her she had to return home and it was quite sad as we were and still are very much in love with each other. We stay in touch and still talk on the phone each week. I’m actually hoping to spend Christmas with her this year and travel a little with her too. With girlfriend number two, it took me 5-6 weeks to seduce and sleep with her. It was a great reward to keep pushing forward and not give up with her. That was 6 months ago and I still see her every week, normally just one day a week where we have a lot of fun and we still go on adventure dates and do romantic dates with each other but this relationship takes very little managing and leaves me free to persue other girls and other things that I want in my personal life. It’s all amazingly simple and easy now with her.
DayGameAdam: I remember there was a point where you were scared of one of your girlfriends falling in love with you so you very nearly broke up with her. I remember being very glad that you eventually decided to stay with her at that time. Can you explain a bit about what your thoughts where at that time and if you think you made the right decision to stay with her and why?
To be honest at that point I hadn’t realised how far I’d come, how much I had changed and where I was! I was scared of becoming inactive and thought my journey wasn’t complete. I thought that I would have to seduce 20+ hot women to prove over and over to myself that I had this ability for life and at that time I felt that getting too close to her and not perusing any new girls that I might go backwards. But when I thought about it, looked closely at what I had done, where I was at and the way that I felt I knew that I already had this ability and what I had learned was never going to leave me. It was a realisation that I was glad I made as I loved every second I spent with her and would never exchange that feeling of having someone really love and care for me and for me to feel the same way back. It’s far more rewarding that a one night stand or casual thing.
DayGameAdam: Looking back over your journey and seeing how far you’ve come from being a bit unsure of how to pick-up women when you first joined School of Attraction to now having a high level of skill and excellent understanding of the seduction process and having some beautiful girlfriends and an abundance of sex and romance in your life, how does it feel to be where you are now and how proud of yourself are you for making your journey a successful one?
I can whole heartedly say that joining School of Attraction was one of the best decisions of my life. It started off as a journey of becoming confident and more successful with women of a higher calibre, and became a never ending journey of self improvement. The things I have learned, the amazing people I have met on the way and the way the course opened up my eyes to just what can be achieved and learned if you dedicate your time and focus to something are all invaluable. I think that every guy that joins School of Attraction, regardless of where they finish should be proud of themselves for having the courage to sign up for something like this because it takes a lot to admit you need help in this area. The funny thing is I’m probably most proud of the way I was able to help other people, and pass on what I had been taught to them. I’m not saying every guy benefited from spending time with me but there were one or two guys that I mentored that I managed to make a big difference to and they actually proved to be the most satisfying moments for me.
How To Have More Dates
Many of the guys I coach and interact with want to have lots of dates
but a common roadblock amongst many of them is that they just don’t
have enough free time to have as many dates as they’d like.
As guys wanting to improve their dating life – this is a problem.
I’ve created the following suggestions to help guys like this (and hopefully yourself too) to quickly and easily start having more dates on a regular basis.
SUGGESTION #1: WORK OUT AT (OR NEAR) HOME
Working out at the gym is a great activity to do for many reasons however it can take up a considerable amount of time and prevent dates occurring up to 3 or 4 nights a week for many guys. My best advise here is to find a way to work out at home. A good kettlebell and/or a good set of dumbbells are pretty much all that’s needed for at home strength training. Cardio can easily be done by jogging in your neighbourhood or similar.
A personal trainer / health expert friend of mine put me on to Kettlebells last year and I personally think they are brilliant. As a result of training consistently with a Kettlebell, I have gained around 15 kilos of muscle in less than a year. Kettlebell’s are so convienient and have basically allowed me to turn my tiny studio apartment into my personal gym without taking up hardly any room (Kettlebell’s are about the size of a soccer ball with a handle). A link to the best Kettlebell company in Australia is in the left bar for anyone interested in checking them out. I currently have the 32kg adjustable kettlebell but there are many great options to choose from depending on your needs and preferences.
SUGGESTION #2: LIMIT HOBBY CLASSES TO ONE A WEEK
Having hobbies and attending classes related to them is a great way to have a more interesting life. Dancing classes, singing classes, public speaking classes, cooking classes etc. are all excellent activities to pursue and can also be a good way to meet women in many cases too. The issue comes from doing too many of these things at once. I know students who have hobby classes almost every night of the week and when that happens, finding time to date girls becomes very difficult. My advice here is to only do ONE hobby class per week as a maximum, especially when you are still mastering the art of dating.
As for myself, Dating is actually my biggest hobby right now. I keep most of my weeknights and weekend free and can do anything I feel like doing from outdoor activities to indoor activities and I do it with a beautiful girl with me. Doing fun things with a beautiful girl or girls is almost always going to be good so I keep time free to be able to do it as much as possible and I enjoy it greatly.
SUGGESTION #3: STACK YOUR DATES
The other piece of advice that I have can work in conjunction with or separate to the above tips and is the concept of stacking your dates on the days and nights when do have a significant amount of free time. Let’s say that you have Wednesday night and Sunday free every week. If this was the case I’d be trying to squeeze as many dates as possible into these times. With some clever scheduling, Wednesday night could easily include a 5pm coffee date then a 7pm dinner date and then a 9pm ice cream or drinks date all on the same night (with the same girl or with multiple girls). Then on Sunday you could go indoor rock climbing in the morning with your first date have a picnic in the early afternoon with your second date and then go dancing in the evening with your third date. It might sound exhausting but it can actually be a lot of fun and may be your best or only option if you’re wanting to date a lot in a limited period of time.
I remember when I was first getting serious about pickup and seduction I’d be having dates almost every lunch time as well as after work and booking myself out completing with dates every weekend. I was having up to ten dates a week at my dating peak and I learned a lot and had a lot of fun in the process. Stacking my dates helped greatly with this.
IN CLOSING
I hope the above suggestions help you to find ways to fit more dates into your busy life and if you have any questions or suggestions related to this article – please post a comment or contact me directly.
As guys wanting to improve their dating life – this is a problem.
I’ve created the following suggestions to help guys like this (and hopefully yourself too) to quickly and easily start having more dates on a regular basis.
SUGGESTION #1: WORK OUT AT (OR NEAR) HOME
Working out at the gym is a great activity to do for many reasons however it can take up a considerable amount of time and prevent dates occurring up to 3 or 4 nights a week for many guys. My best advise here is to find a way to work out at home. A good kettlebell and/or a good set of dumbbells are pretty much all that’s needed for at home strength training. Cardio can easily be done by jogging in your neighbourhood or similar.
A personal trainer / health expert friend of mine put me on to Kettlebells last year and I personally think they are brilliant. As a result of training consistently with a Kettlebell, I have gained around 15 kilos of muscle in less than a year. Kettlebell’s are so convienient and have basically allowed me to turn my tiny studio apartment into my personal gym without taking up hardly any room (Kettlebell’s are about the size of a soccer ball with a handle). A link to the best Kettlebell company in Australia is in the left bar for anyone interested in checking them out. I currently have the 32kg adjustable kettlebell but there are many great options to choose from depending on your needs and preferences.
SUGGESTION #2: LIMIT HOBBY CLASSES TO ONE A WEEK
Having hobbies and attending classes related to them is a great way to have a more interesting life. Dancing classes, singing classes, public speaking classes, cooking classes etc. are all excellent activities to pursue and can also be a good way to meet women in many cases too. The issue comes from doing too many of these things at once. I know students who have hobby classes almost every night of the week and when that happens, finding time to date girls becomes very difficult. My advice here is to only do ONE hobby class per week as a maximum, especially when you are still mastering the art of dating.
As for myself, Dating is actually my biggest hobby right now. I keep most of my weeknights and weekend free and can do anything I feel like doing from outdoor activities to indoor activities and I do it with a beautiful girl with me. Doing fun things with a beautiful girl or girls is almost always going to be good so I keep time free to be able to do it as much as possible and I enjoy it greatly.
SUGGESTION #3: STACK YOUR DATES
The other piece of advice that I have can work in conjunction with or separate to the above tips and is the concept of stacking your dates on the days and nights when do have a significant amount of free time. Let’s say that you have Wednesday night and Sunday free every week. If this was the case I’d be trying to squeeze as many dates as possible into these times. With some clever scheduling, Wednesday night could easily include a 5pm coffee date then a 7pm dinner date and then a 9pm ice cream or drinks date all on the same night (with the same girl or with multiple girls). Then on Sunday you could go indoor rock climbing in the morning with your first date have a picnic in the early afternoon with your second date and then go dancing in the evening with your third date. It might sound exhausting but it can actually be a lot of fun and may be your best or only option if you’re wanting to date a lot in a limited period of time.
I remember when I was first getting serious about pickup and seduction I’d be having dates almost every lunch time as well as after work and booking myself out completing with dates every weekend. I was having up to ten dates a week at my dating peak and I learned a lot and had a lot of fun in the process. Stacking my dates helped greatly with this.
IN CLOSING
I hope the above suggestions help you to find ways to fit more dates into your busy life and if you have any questions or suggestions related to this article – please post a comment or contact me directly.
Day Game Photo Collage
For the people who are curious about what a Day Game coaching session
with me usually looks like, here’s a photo collage from a recent
session wih a student.
To give the photo’s some desriptions we have:
Top left: a cute Asian girl and her mother
Top right: a group of French girls
Bottom left: two lovely girls from Denmark
Bottom right: a beautiful Swedish girl
This was from about one hour of our four hour coaching session…
To give the photo’s some desriptions we have:
Top left: a cute Asian girl and her mother
Top right: a group of French girls
Bottom left: two lovely girls from Denmark
Bottom right: a beautiful Swedish girl
This was from about one hour of our four hour coaching session…
30 Day Challenge: Meet 30 Women In 30 Days
PROBLEM: not meeting enough women and/or lack of momentum
CHALLENGE: meet at least 30 women in 30 days and write about every interaction
One of the most common 30 Day Challenges I recommend to guys is the “meet 30 women in 30 days” challenge.
This challenge requires one to meet and attempt to pickup at least 30 women in a 30 day period and it is a great way to either start in the game or to get back into the game as it can help to build some serious momentum.
If you do take on this challenge you can choose to either spread out of the 30 days in one approach a day type of deal or it can be done in a few blocks throughout the month. Either way is fine.
You can also meet girls in a variety of ways from night game to day game to speed dating etc.
As always, I recommend you keep a record of your progress while doing this challenge and literally write as much as you can about what happens during it. Then at the end of the month, assess your progress and decide you next plan of action.
If you do undertake this challenge, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to give you some helpful feedback.
CHALLENGE: meet at least 30 women in 30 days and write about every interaction
One of the most common 30 Day Challenges I recommend to guys is the “meet 30 women in 30 days” challenge.
This challenge requires one to meet and attempt to pickup at least 30 women in a 30 day period and it is a great way to either start in the game or to get back into the game as it can help to build some serious momentum.
If you do take on this challenge you can choose to either spread out of the 30 days in one approach a day type of deal or it can be done in a few blocks throughout the month. Either way is fine.
You can also meet girls in a variety of ways from night game to day game to speed dating etc.
As always, I recommend you keep a record of your progress while doing this challenge and literally write as much as you can about what happens during it. Then at the end of the month, assess your progress and decide you next plan of action.
If you do undertake this challenge, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to give you some helpful feedback.
Interview: Ryan (School of Attraction Student)
One of the most interesting students I’ve had the pleasure of
coaching is a young man by the name of Ryan (aka Duck) who recently
completed School of Attraction’s “Sincere Seduction Intensive” course.
Ryan is one of the smartest and most hard working guys I’ve ever met and his hard work paid off for him by taking him from being relatively nervous and hesitant at the start of the course to now having virtually unmatched fearlessness in his ability to approach almost any women in almost any situation.
Here’s my recent interview with Ryan where he discusses his Pickup and Dating journey so far, reviews School of Attraction’s “Sincere Seduction Intensive” course and gives some valuable insights into how others can achieve similar levels of fearlessness as him…
DayGameAdam: “Duck” is an interesting nickname to have, why did you pick that name and what does it represent about you?
Actually, I just chose the first thing that came to my mind when I signed up for the Masculine Confidence Intensive course because I was so motivated to get all the admin out of the way so I could focus on learning and taking action. It’s been a weakness of mine in the past to think too much, and act too little. So I just went with whatever came up first. But in hindsight, it wasn’t such a bad choice. Everybody else seems to have very “bad-ass” names, whereas mine is more true to my personality. I am the ugly duckling in terms of how much I have to learn, but I’ll get there.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe your previous experience with women prior to joining School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
Very limited, to the point where I’m embarrassed. I was always the shy guy in high school, and I also didn’t think very much of myself. I never thought I had what it takes to be good enough for a woman. I was hard on myself for not having the best body and things like this. I was very picky about my flaws, and I was a perfectionist about everything. So I basically steered clear of women, I was just the really nice guy. In fact, when women would get to know me better, a lot of them would make a move on me because they saw the qualities that I had, but I just didn’t have the leadership or self-belief to respond. I also thought they were just desperate for going for someone like me because I didn’t agree that I was high value.
DayGameAdam: How did you first hear about School of Attraction?
I joined SydneySarge, and then started noticing posts by DJ DANTE (School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien Diecke). I really liked the these posts because they were completely different to conventional pickup material. I had read “The Game”, but when I implemented it, I ended up feeling like crap and also hurting a few women. It didn’t get me anywhere, and even if it did, I didn’t like the way it was getting me there. I felt terrible with myself. It wasn’t worth it. So after sending an email to Damien, I checked out his website. That’s when I was really impressed. I saw the SOA Honour Code and also the Video section. After checking out these two sections of the website, I knew that I’d definitely join SOA.
DayGameAdam: What was your main reason for you wanting to enrol in School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
My reason for joining was because I really wanted to change and become a more confident version of myself. I knew that I could attract women, I know I’m a decent guy, so I didn’t want to change my personality. I wanted to attract women who liked me. So I just needed the guts to be ok with showing women who I was. That’s what I got from SOA. This is worth so much more than gimmicks which will only work for a very narrow range of people who have that type of specific personality.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe how you felt before your first practical session? I imagine you were nervous and excited yes? How did that session go for you?
I pretended to be ok. But really, I was really not ok. I was shaking, shivering, and I actually felt like throwing up (I know that sounds bad, but it’s the truth). I couldn’t think properly. And I almost fainted when I did my first approach. But toward the end of the practical, I just had the awesome wave of excitement flow over my body. I felt really proud at what I had just done. I had started to enter into a league of actions which not many guys can do.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe your journey over the remainder of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course? What expectations did you have for yourself and did you exceed them?
I just wanted to be able to approach women by myself, and number close by myself, by the end of the course. I thought that if I could get rid of my fears of approaching, and build enough rapport to get numbers, then I would just be crazy happy. It’s now the end of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course for me, and I can happily say that I have been able to approach and number close by myself. I reached my goals. And what’s more, I have approached women in the most crazy situations. I have really become fearless. But now that I think about it, I have also been on a few instant dates, second, and third dates. I guess that I have exceeded my expectations in that sense, I never thought that would be possible from meeting someone on the street. I have just become a really confident guy.
Now if you’re reading this and thinking, well that’s not really impressive, you have to know where I have come from, not how far I have come. For the past two years of my life, I have been literally socially isolated because of a medical condition, and specifically, the drugs they put me to correct my condition changed my appearance drastically. My face was the size of a watermelon, I was 20 kilos overweight (I have the stretchmarks and photos to prove), the medication also took away my ability to speak and think properly. I only had 2 friends over the past 2 years. And from me to go from being socially isolated, and out of shape both physically and mentally, to being able to get the contact details of girls who look like supermodels on the street, or in even in girls shops, then you can see why I’m just really happy and excited. And when I say socially isolated, I mean it. I remember crying like a baby for 10 minutes in front of my doctor to get me off that medication so that I could just have a chance to fight to get my body back and then get out there and meet people again. I cried so badly that they actually hospitalised me and immediately started to take the drugs away.
Without School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course, I wouldn’t have been able to do all this so quickly, or smoothly. I still have tons to learn, but SOA has given me the ability to take it from here and continue my development because I can approach by myself now. Without fail, I approach women every week, and I also get a little better at the entire process, every week. Importantly, now I’m starting to have a lot more fun, whereas before I’d be nervous and see it as a job. I’m also getting more dates and results these days because I’m improving, so this also makes it easier to keep going.
DayGameAdam: One thing that I was really impressed about your progress was the “fearlessness” that you mentioned earlier whereby towards the end of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course, you were able to approach literally any woman in literally any situation. What do you think the key to becoming so fearless is?
STEP 1: Get help from other people who will hold you accountable and push you into sets if you chicken out. Go out with other guys from SOA.
STEP 2: Get your mind right. Discover out the way you think. Find out the thoughts that flow through you mind. Write them down on paper. Challenge them, change them.
Here is an example of what I caught myself thinking, and how I changed it:
“I don’t want to approach because what if I get rejected?”
Point 1: I’m only scared because I don’t know the girls yet. But I get accepted 9 times out of 10 times because girls absolutely love compliments. They walk away literally skipping. Most girls also respect guys who approach properly because it takes huge confidence and hardly any guys do it.
Point 2: There isn’t actually any problem with rejection because why should I continue to desire someone who doesn’t like who I am when there are others who will? I don’t want the approval of every girl because I don’t want to constantly push to be loved. And everyone is unique so some guys will attract girls that I can’t and vice versa.
“What if other people see me approaching and being rejected?”
It doesn’t matter if people see me being rejected. I don’t need the approval of everyone. Why should I let others stop me from achieving my goals? And who will remember after a few minutes? Most people won’t even notice because they will be too busy. And they probably won’t even be able to tell what I’m doing.
“What if I run out of things to say or I’m just not compatible with her?”
I don’t have to change my core personality or values because my aim is not to attract or impress every woman. Winning over girls by manipulation is empty. I want a girl who supports and likes me as I am. My test is whether a girl still shows an interest and we have chemistry when I’m not purposely trying to impress.
“That girl is WAY too attractive to approach.”
I can approach attractive women because that is only my perception. Whoever I think is attractive will be average to someone else. And underneath they are only human and so they have exactly the same needs. I’ve been treated really well by some hot girls and badly by some ugly girls, and vice versa.
“I can’t approach that girl because she is sitting down/in a girls store etc…”
My thoughts about an approach are irrelevant. I try to analyse girls and the situation to determine if I should approach, but my mind always creates excuses. But these excuses are not reality but simply my view. I know because when I have just approached anyway, these thoughts have proven unreliable and inaccurate, because I have still number closed. If she is cute, and not with a guy, I can approach.
“I don’t feel right today, I’m just not motivated. I need to wait until I feel good and happy about this.”
Point 1: I can still approach despite low motivation. My lack of state is only an illusion. I’ll never feel motivated, right, or happy before an approach because these states are only created by action and not prior to action – so be completely cool with feeling terrible when you first start to approach, and then just be amazed at how well the rest of your day pans out.”
Point 2: Whatever is worthwhile is never easy to get. If it’s hard, then I’m on the right track. If I won without a fight, life would be pointless and dull. I actually need challenges. I might as well also just enjoy this entire process because I can’t ever run away since the rule for anything in life will always be “no pain, no gain”.
STEP 3: Be consistent, practice a little every day, and you will become desensitised. Even if you can only afford to do a single set, just get blown out if you need to.
STEP 4: Really believe in yourself. This is perhaps one of the most important steps. Once you start getting dates, you have to know and believe in your value as a complete person. Why are you awesome? Why are you worthy? What are your strengths?
DayGameAdam: How would your describe your mindset now when you see a beautiful girl you want to talk to? What should other guys who want to emulate your ability to approach women be thinking to help then achieve similar fearlessness?
This is my mindset:
I can never lose when I choose to approach because I always gain experience, my chance of success also accumulates with each attempt, and to overcome the worst rejections or dead-ends has been a cakewalk in comparison to live with not trying. Anything is better than not approaching because that is always an automatic loss.
And also, with experience, guys will just start to see how harmless this whole process really is, and as soon as that happens, fun starts to creep in, and when that happens, you will really start to be on the right track. You will talk to beautiful women because you also love it, not because you have to. It never really works well when you have to push yourself out of negative things to approach, for example, non approaches will be shot, or have to do push ups, or are losers etc. It works very well when you just approach because you’re so happy at what is possible, and you’re just happy with yourself and your life.
DayGameAdam: You mentioned that you exceeded your goals of being able to approach, attract and date beautiful girls, what were some of your specific proudest moment and memories of some of your most memorable interactions with women?
I have a lot actually. But perhaps one of the best was stopping two very attractive (and also very high value) women on the street and scoring an instant date with them to walk over the Sydney Harbour Bridge with them, and this was on a mentor session as well, so it really helped my buddy progress and see what was possible. He came in and winged me, and I think that gave him tons of confidence. I built so much rapport that one of the girls REALLY liked me, and constantly messaged me, so I hung out with her quite a few times after that day as well.
DayGameAdam: What tips and advice do you have for other guys just starting out on their pickup journey? What things should they do to increase their chances of success?
The single main thing you can do to improve, especially if you’re just starting out, is to get help from guys who know what they are doing. For School of Attraction students – just have an open mind, and listen to feedback from the SOA coaches. It can be a real shock sometimes, but all my feedback has been spot on, and once I’ve changed it, I got better results. Also, check out the articles and videos on the website. That was a huge help for me.
DayGameAdam: I know you recently started mentoring other students as part of SOA’s mentoring program. How did you find that experience to be and do you think it helped strengthen what you had learned in the MCI course by teaching it to others?
The mentoring was just really rewarding. I left with a huge smile on my face, because I could just tell I had made a difference. And it also reinforced what I had learnt in my MCI course so far too. It’s just a win/win situation. It was like a mini-refresher. By teaching, you really learn the material more for yourself. Also, any set that my buddies didn’t want to do, I went and did myself. It really forced me to move up to a higher level and I surprised myself at how I could just step up when needed. I performed better when I was out by myself as a result.
For School of Attraction students who would like to read more about Ryan’s journey, his journal is located HERE
For non School of Attraction members who are interested in viewing the videos, articles and courses that Ryan mentions above, please visit: www.schoolofattraction.com.au
Ryan is one of the smartest and most hard working guys I’ve ever met and his hard work paid off for him by taking him from being relatively nervous and hesitant at the start of the course to now having virtually unmatched fearlessness in his ability to approach almost any women in almost any situation.
Here’s my recent interview with Ryan where he discusses his Pickup and Dating journey so far, reviews School of Attraction’s “Sincere Seduction Intensive” course and gives some valuable insights into how others can achieve similar levels of fearlessness as him…
DayGameAdam: “Duck” is an interesting nickname to have, why did you pick that name and what does it represent about you?
Actually, I just chose the first thing that came to my mind when I signed up for the Masculine Confidence Intensive course because I was so motivated to get all the admin out of the way so I could focus on learning and taking action. It’s been a weakness of mine in the past to think too much, and act too little. So I just went with whatever came up first. But in hindsight, it wasn’t such a bad choice. Everybody else seems to have very “bad-ass” names, whereas mine is more true to my personality. I am the ugly duckling in terms of how much I have to learn, but I’ll get there.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe your previous experience with women prior to joining School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
Very limited, to the point where I’m embarrassed. I was always the shy guy in high school, and I also didn’t think very much of myself. I never thought I had what it takes to be good enough for a woman. I was hard on myself for not having the best body and things like this. I was very picky about my flaws, and I was a perfectionist about everything. So I basically steered clear of women, I was just the really nice guy. In fact, when women would get to know me better, a lot of them would make a move on me because they saw the qualities that I had, but I just didn’t have the leadership or self-belief to respond. I also thought they were just desperate for going for someone like me because I didn’t agree that I was high value.
DayGameAdam: How did you first hear about School of Attraction?
I joined SydneySarge, and then started noticing posts by DJ DANTE (School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien Diecke). I really liked the these posts because they were completely different to conventional pickup material. I had read “The Game”, but when I implemented it, I ended up feeling like crap and also hurting a few women. It didn’t get me anywhere, and even if it did, I didn’t like the way it was getting me there. I felt terrible with myself. It wasn’t worth it. So after sending an email to Damien, I checked out his website. That’s when I was really impressed. I saw the SOA Honour Code and also the Video section. After checking out these two sections of the website, I knew that I’d definitely join SOA.
DayGameAdam: What was your main reason for you wanting to enrol in School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course?
My reason for joining was because I really wanted to change and become a more confident version of myself. I knew that I could attract women, I know I’m a decent guy, so I didn’t want to change my personality. I wanted to attract women who liked me. So I just needed the guts to be ok with showing women who I was. That’s what I got from SOA. This is worth so much more than gimmicks which will only work for a very narrow range of people who have that type of specific personality.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe how you felt before your first practical session? I imagine you were nervous and excited yes? How did that session go for you?
I pretended to be ok. But really, I was really not ok. I was shaking, shivering, and I actually felt like throwing up (I know that sounds bad, but it’s the truth). I couldn’t think properly. And I almost fainted when I did my first approach. But toward the end of the practical, I just had the awesome wave of excitement flow over my body. I felt really proud at what I had just done. I had started to enter into a league of actions which not many guys can do.
DayGameAdam: How would you describe your journey over the remainder of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course? What expectations did you have for yourself and did you exceed them?
I just wanted to be able to approach women by myself, and number close by myself, by the end of the course. I thought that if I could get rid of my fears of approaching, and build enough rapport to get numbers, then I would just be crazy happy. It’s now the end of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course for me, and I can happily say that I have been able to approach and number close by myself. I reached my goals. And what’s more, I have approached women in the most crazy situations. I have really become fearless. But now that I think about it, I have also been on a few instant dates, second, and third dates. I guess that I have exceeded my expectations in that sense, I never thought that would be possible from meeting someone on the street. I have just become a really confident guy.
Now if you’re reading this and thinking, well that’s not really impressive, you have to know where I have come from, not how far I have come. For the past two years of my life, I have been literally socially isolated because of a medical condition, and specifically, the drugs they put me to correct my condition changed my appearance drastically. My face was the size of a watermelon, I was 20 kilos overweight (I have the stretchmarks and photos to prove), the medication also took away my ability to speak and think properly. I only had 2 friends over the past 2 years. And from me to go from being socially isolated, and out of shape both physically and mentally, to being able to get the contact details of girls who look like supermodels on the street, or in even in girls shops, then you can see why I’m just really happy and excited. And when I say socially isolated, I mean it. I remember crying like a baby for 10 minutes in front of my doctor to get me off that medication so that I could just have a chance to fight to get my body back and then get out there and meet people again. I cried so badly that they actually hospitalised me and immediately started to take the drugs away.
Without School of Attraction’s Masculine Confidence Intensive course, I wouldn’t have been able to do all this so quickly, or smoothly. I still have tons to learn, but SOA has given me the ability to take it from here and continue my development because I can approach by myself now. Without fail, I approach women every week, and I also get a little better at the entire process, every week. Importantly, now I’m starting to have a lot more fun, whereas before I’d be nervous and see it as a job. I’m also getting more dates and results these days because I’m improving, so this also makes it easier to keep going.
DayGameAdam: One thing that I was really impressed about your progress was the “fearlessness” that you mentioned earlier whereby towards the end of the Masculine Confidence Intensive course, you were able to approach literally any woman in literally any situation. What do you think the key to becoming so fearless is?
STEP 1: Get help from other people who will hold you accountable and push you into sets if you chicken out. Go out with other guys from SOA.
STEP 2: Get your mind right. Discover out the way you think. Find out the thoughts that flow through you mind. Write them down on paper. Challenge them, change them.
Here is an example of what I caught myself thinking, and how I changed it:
“I don’t want to approach because what if I get rejected?”
Point 1: I’m only scared because I don’t know the girls yet. But I get accepted 9 times out of 10 times because girls absolutely love compliments. They walk away literally skipping. Most girls also respect guys who approach properly because it takes huge confidence and hardly any guys do it.
Point 2: There isn’t actually any problem with rejection because why should I continue to desire someone who doesn’t like who I am when there are others who will? I don’t want the approval of every girl because I don’t want to constantly push to be loved. And everyone is unique so some guys will attract girls that I can’t and vice versa.
“What if other people see me approaching and being rejected?”
It doesn’t matter if people see me being rejected. I don’t need the approval of everyone. Why should I let others stop me from achieving my goals? And who will remember after a few minutes? Most people won’t even notice because they will be too busy. And they probably won’t even be able to tell what I’m doing.
“What if I run out of things to say or I’m just not compatible with her?”
I don’t have to change my core personality or values because my aim is not to attract or impress every woman. Winning over girls by manipulation is empty. I want a girl who supports and likes me as I am. My test is whether a girl still shows an interest and we have chemistry when I’m not purposely trying to impress.
“That girl is WAY too attractive to approach.”
I can approach attractive women because that is only my perception. Whoever I think is attractive will be average to someone else. And underneath they are only human and so they have exactly the same needs. I’ve been treated really well by some hot girls and badly by some ugly girls, and vice versa.
“I can’t approach that girl because she is sitting down/in a girls store etc…”
My thoughts about an approach are irrelevant. I try to analyse girls and the situation to determine if I should approach, but my mind always creates excuses. But these excuses are not reality but simply my view. I know because when I have just approached anyway, these thoughts have proven unreliable and inaccurate, because I have still number closed. If she is cute, and not with a guy, I can approach.
“I don’t feel right today, I’m just not motivated. I need to wait until I feel good and happy about this.”
Point 1: I can still approach despite low motivation. My lack of state is only an illusion. I’ll never feel motivated, right, or happy before an approach because these states are only created by action and not prior to action – so be completely cool with feeling terrible when you first start to approach, and then just be amazed at how well the rest of your day pans out.”
Point 2: Whatever is worthwhile is never easy to get. If it’s hard, then I’m on the right track. If I won without a fight, life would be pointless and dull. I actually need challenges. I might as well also just enjoy this entire process because I can’t ever run away since the rule for anything in life will always be “no pain, no gain”.
STEP 3: Be consistent, practice a little every day, and you will become desensitised. Even if you can only afford to do a single set, just get blown out if you need to.
STEP 4: Really believe in yourself. This is perhaps one of the most important steps. Once you start getting dates, you have to know and believe in your value as a complete person. Why are you awesome? Why are you worthy? What are your strengths?
DayGameAdam: How would your describe your mindset now when you see a beautiful girl you want to talk to? What should other guys who want to emulate your ability to approach women be thinking to help then achieve similar fearlessness?
This is my mindset:
I can never lose when I choose to approach because I always gain experience, my chance of success also accumulates with each attempt, and to overcome the worst rejections or dead-ends has been a cakewalk in comparison to live with not trying. Anything is better than not approaching because that is always an automatic loss.
And also, with experience, guys will just start to see how harmless this whole process really is, and as soon as that happens, fun starts to creep in, and when that happens, you will really start to be on the right track. You will talk to beautiful women because you also love it, not because you have to. It never really works well when you have to push yourself out of negative things to approach, for example, non approaches will be shot, or have to do push ups, or are losers etc. It works very well when you just approach because you’re so happy at what is possible, and you’re just happy with yourself and your life.
DayGameAdam: You mentioned that you exceeded your goals of being able to approach, attract and date beautiful girls, what were some of your specific proudest moment and memories of some of your most memorable interactions with women?
I have a lot actually. But perhaps one of the best was stopping two very attractive (and also very high value) women on the street and scoring an instant date with them to walk over the Sydney Harbour Bridge with them, and this was on a mentor session as well, so it really helped my buddy progress and see what was possible. He came in and winged me, and I think that gave him tons of confidence. I built so much rapport that one of the girls REALLY liked me, and constantly messaged me, so I hung out with her quite a few times after that day as well.
DayGameAdam: What tips and advice do you have for other guys just starting out on their pickup journey? What things should they do to increase their chances of success?
The single main thing you can do to improve, especially if you’re just starting out, is to get help from guys who know what they are doing. For School of Attraction students – just have an open mind, and listen to feedback from the SOA coaches. It can be a real shock sometimes, but all my feedback has been spot on, and once I’ve changed it, I got better results. Also, check out the articles and videos on the website. That was a huge help for me.
DayGameAdam: I know you recently started mentoring other students as part of SOA’s mentoring program. How did you find that experience to be and do you think it helped strengthen what you had learned in the MCI course by teaching it to others?
The mentoring was just really rewarding. I left with a huge smile on my face, because I could just tell I had made a difference. And it also reinforced what I had learnt in my MCI course so far too. It’s just a win/win situation. It was like a mini-refresher. By teaching, you really learn the material more for yourself. Also, any set that my buddies didn’t want to do, I went and did myself. It really forced me to move up to a higher level and I surprised myself at how I could just step up when needed. I performed better when I was out by myself as a result.
For School of Attraction students who would like to read more about Ryan’s journey, his journal is located HERE
For non School of Attraction members who are interested in viewing the videos, articles and courses that Ryan mentions above, please visit: www.schoolofattraction.com.au
Phone and Text: The SQI Text Loop
Having tight Phone and Text game is a super important skill to have in order to become super successful with women.
Guys with less than excellent Phone and Text game frequently get flaked on, lose girls unnecessarily and struggle to get girls to meet up with them.
Conversely, guys with great Phone and Text game literally;
- NEVER get flaked on
- NEVER lose girls unnecessarily
- ALWAYS get girls to meet up with them
To help some School of Attraction students improve their Phone and Text Game MASSIVELY and RAPIDLY I’ve created what I believe to be the BEST Phone and Text Course in the world BUT I realize that not every reader of this blog is able to attend this course SO I recently asked myself “how can someone improve their Phone and Text game INSTANTLY, without needing me to be there to guide them?”
The answer came to me almost immediately…
CHEAT CODES
In case you’re not familiar with the term, a cheat code is a hidden feature in a video game that, once entered, allows even the most novice gamer to experience the same or better results than experts – INSTANTLY.
There are advantages and disadvantages to using cheat codes in any area of life but the fact remains that they GET RESULTS which is the most important thing for most guys.
Believe it or not, cheat codes definitely exist in pickup and dating and I’ve recently uncovered a number of powerful cheat codes for Phone and Text Game. Today I’m going to share one of them with you.
It is;
THE SQI TEXT LOOP
Before getting into the “The SQI Text Loop” here’s what you DON’T WANT TO DO when it comes to texting;
TEXTING ERROR ONE: BEING THE “INVITE GUY”
Too many invites = no fun and looks way too keen
invite guy: do you want to have coffee today?
her: I’m at Uni all day today sorri
invite guy: ok cool
2 days later
invite guy: are you free on Friday night?
her: it’s my friends birthday party on Friday night
invite guy: ok, have fun!
1 week later
invite guy: do you want to have a picnic this weekend?
her: NO RESPONSE
TEXTING ERROR TWO: BEING THE “QUESTION GUY”
Too many questions = too boring and too interested
question guy: how was your day today?
her: gud thx
question guy: that’s good
what did you do?
her: uni and gym
question guy: awesome. what do you do at Uni again?
her: marketing
question guy: cool, do you like it?
her: it’s ok
question guy: how was the gym?
her: NO RESPONSE
TEXTING ERROR THREE: BEING THE “STATEMENT GUY”
too many statements = too aloof
statement guy: my day kicked your day’s butt
her: lol, awesome, what did u do?
statement guy: be awesome like I always am.
her: oh really? sounds good. lol
statement guy: you bet. I’m going to the beach this weekend.
her: which beach?
statement guy: Palm Beach
her: I’ve never been there b4. is it good?
statement guy: it’s awesome
her: NO RESPONSE
statement guy: you should check it out some time
her: NO RESPONSE
As you can see from the above, too many statements, too many questions or too many invites done individually is a BAD idea.
I learned this the hard way and I see many students and friends making this mistake as well.
SO HOW DOES ONE AVOID THE TRAP OF TOO MANY STATEMENTS, QUESTIONS AND INVITES?
Simple, follow the Statement, Question, Invite (SQI) Text Loop
This texting cheat code is SIMPLE to understand and EASY to implement.
All you need to do is send text messages in the following order;
1. statement
2. question
3. invite
Then just repeat this process to infinite until she agrees to meet up with you.
This loop ensures that you NEVER fall into the invite guy, statement guy or question guy trap.
It also makes you appear high value without even trying.
And most importantly – IT GETS RESULTS.
NOTE: It doesn’t matter if it’s a girl you just met or a girl you’ve known for a while. The same process applies and it is equally effective for ALL females.
THE SQI TEXT LOOP IN PRACTICE
SCENARIO ONE: GIRL I MET RECENTLY
This was with a girl I met last Saturday.
statement: I’m cooking the best lamb roast for dinner tonight
her: sounds good! who are you eating it with?
question: myself and I
u had dinner yet?
her: yup! I had pizza
invite: I love pizza! are you free for coffee on Thursday or Friday?
her: yes
SCENARIO TWO: GIRL I’M DATING
This was with a girl I’ve been on two dates with so far
statement: this weather sux! Summer needs to hurry up and get here already!!
her: lol. yeah I know. so cold today
question: what’s the weather forecast for the weekend miss weather woman?
her: I think it will be nice weather
invite: awesome. let’s have a picnic if the weather is good. Is Saturday good for you?
her: I’m busy Saturday, but can we do it on Sunday?
me: sure
MUCH better than invite guy, statement guy and questions guys text right? RIGHT!
WHY DOES THIS WORK SO WELL?
The SQI Text Loop works for a number of reasons BUT the thing with cheat codes is that you don’t have to understand exactly why it works to use it and to get the results you desire.
Just use it and get results.
Simple.
For now, you can think of it like fishing;
statement = throwing bait and hook into the water
question = pulling on the line in an attempt to hook the fish (or female) onto your line
invite = attempting to reel a hooked fish (or female) onto your boat and eventually onto your dinner plate
NOW – go out there and use it and start improving your results IMMEDIATELY.
DISCLAIMER: It is fine to add additional statements and questions into the mix. Sometimes your text messages may be more SQSQI or SQQSI or some other combination and that is TOTALLY fine. Just try to have some type of balance between statement, questions and invites and when in doubt go with the SQI loop – it works.
Guys with less than excellent Phone and Text game frequently get flaked on, lose girls unnecessarily and struggle to get girls to meet up with them.
Conversely, guys with great Phone and Text game literally;
- NEVER get flaked on
- NEVER lose girls unnecessarily
- ALWAYS get girls to meet up with them
To help some School of Attraction students improve their Phone and Text Game MASSIVELY and RAPIDLY I’ve created what I believe to be the BEST Phone and Text Course in the world BUT I realize that not every reader of this blog is able to attend this course SO I recently asked myself “how can someone improve their Phone and Text game INSTANTLY, without needing me to be there to guide them?”
The answer came to me almost immediately…
CHEAT CODES
In case you’re not familiar with the term, a cheat code is a hidden feature in a video game that, once entered, allows even the most novice gamer to experience the same or better results than experts – INSTANTLY.
There are advantages and disadvantages to using cheat codes in any area of life but the fact remains that they GET RESULTS which is the most important thing for most guys.
Believe it or not, cheat codes definitely exist in pickup and dating and I’ve recently uncovered a number of powerful cheat codes for Phone and Text Game. Today I’m going to share one of them with you.
It is;
THE SQI TEXT LOOP
Before getting into the “The SQI Text Loop” here’s what you DON’T WANT TO DO when it comes to texting;
TEXTING ERROR ONE: BEING THE “INVITE GUY”
Too many invites = no fun and looks way too keen
invite guy: do you want to have coffee today?
her: I’m at Uni all day today sorri
invite guy: ok cool
2 days later
invite guy: are you free on Friday night?
her: it’s my friends birthday party on Friday night
invite guy: ok, have fun!
1 week later
invite guy: do you want to have a picnic this weekend?
her: NO RESPONSE
TEXTING ERROR TWO: BEING THE “QUESTION GUY”
Too many questions = too boring and too interested
question guy: how was your day today?
her: gud thx
question guy: that’s good
what did you do?her: uni and gym
question guy: awesome. what do you do at Uni again?
her: marketing
question guy: cool, do you like it?
her: it’s ok
question guy: how was the gym?
her: NO RESPONSE
TEXTING ERROR THREE: BEING THE “STATEMENT GUY”
too many statements = too aloof
statement guy: my day kicked your day’s butt
her: lol, awesome, what did u do?
statement guy: be awesome like I always am.
her: oh really? sounds good. lol
statement guy: you bet. I’m going to the beach this weekend.
her: which beach?
statement guy: Palm Beach
her: I’ve never been there b4. is it good?
statement guy: it’s awesome
her: NO RESPONSE
statement guy: you should check it out some time
her: NO RESPONSE
As you can see from the above, too many statements, too many questions or too many invites done individually is a BAD idea.
I learned this the hard way and I see many students and friends making this mistake as well.
SO HOW DOES ONE AVOID THE TRAP OF TOO MANY STATEMENTS, QUESTIONS AND INVITES?
Simple, follow the Statement, Question, Invite (SQI) Text Loop
This texting cheat code is SIMPLE to understand and EASY to implement.
All you need to do is send text messages in the following order;
1. statement
2. question
3. invite
Then just repeat this process to infinite until she agrees to meet up with you.
This loop ensures that you NEVER fall into the invite guy, statement guy or question guy trap.
It also makes you appear high value without even trying.
And most importantly – IT GETS RESULTS.
NOTE: It doesn’t matter if it’s a girl you just met or a girl you’ve known for a while. The same process applies and it is equally effective for ALL females.
SCENARIO ONE: GIRL I MET RECENTLY
This was with a girl I met last Saturday.
statement: I’m cooking the best lamb roast for dinner tonight
her: sounds good! who are you eating it with?
question: myself and I
u had dinner yet?her: yup! I had pizza
invite: I love pizza! are you free for coffee on Thursday or Friday?
her: yes
SCENARIO TWO: GIRL I’M DATING
This was with a girl I’ve been on two dates with so far
statement: this weather sux! Summer needs to hurry up and get here already!!
her: lol. yeah I know. so cold today
question: what’s the weather forecast for the weekend miss weather woman?
her: I think it will be nice weather
invite: awesome. let’s have a picnic if the weather is good. Is Saturday good for you?
her: I’m busy Saturday, but can we do it on Sunday?
me: sure
MUCH better than invite guy, statement guy and questions guys text right? RIGHT!
WHY DOES THIS WORK SO WELL?
The SQI Text Loop works for a number of reasons BUT the thing with cheat codes is that you don’t have to understand exactly why it works to use it and to get the results you desire.
Just use it and get results.
Simple.
For now, you can think of it like fishing;
statement = throwing bait and hook into the water
question = pulling on the line in an attempt to hook the fish (or female) onto your line
invite = attempting to reel a hooked fish (or female) onto your boat and eventually onto your dinner plate
NOW – go out there and use it and start improving your results IMMEDIATELY.
DISCLAIMER: It is fine to add additional statements and questions into the mix. Sometimes your text messages may be more SQSQI or SQQSI or some other combination and that is TOTALLY fine. Just try to have some type of balance between statement, questions and invites and when in doubt go with the SQI loop – it works.
Introduction
Welcome to my blog!
I’m super excited to have it online and I hope you enjoy reading it.
WHO AM I?
Good question.
The way I see it, I’m just a regular guy from Sydney, Australia who one day decided to get my romantic life sorted once and for all by enrolling in School of Attraction’s “Masculine Confidence Intensive Course”.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
Put simply, the course was amazing and it led to a LOT of amazing changes in my life including countless dates with beautiful women and the romantic life of my dreams.
On top of that I was also eventually invited to become a School of Attraction Coach and I now help guys learn how to pickup attractive women almost every weekend. I love it.
I also write some cool articles and other material from time to time too and I decided that creating a personal blog would be a great way for me to share some of what I have to offer with a wider audience.
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS BLOG?
For now I plan to post material on this blog every Wednesday (Sydney, Australia time).
The material I post will include;
1. articles
2. interviews
3. 30 day challenges
4. field reports
5. other random stuff
I really hope you enjoy the material I share.
Feel free to contact me with any feedback you may have.
All the best
Day Game Adam
I’m super excited to have it online and I hope you enjoy reading it.
WHO AM I?
Good question.
The way I see it, I’m just a regular guy from Sydney, Australia who one day decided to get my romantic life sorted once and for all by enrolling in School of Attraction’s “Masculine Confidence Intensive Course”.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
Put simply, the course was amazing and it led to a LOT of amazing changes in my life including countless dates with beautiful women and the romantic life of my dreams.
On top of that I was also eventually invited to become a School of Attraction Coach and I now help guys learn how to pickup attractive women almost every weekend. I love it.
I also write some cool articles and other material from time to time too and I decided that creating a personal blog would be a great way for me to share some of what I have to offer with a wider audience.
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS BLOG?
For now I plan to post material on this blog every Wednesday (Sydney, Australia time).
The material I post will include;
1. articles
2. interviews
3. 30 day challenges
4. field reports
5. other random stuff
I really hope you enjoy the material I share.
Feel free to contact me with any feedback you may have.
All the best
Day Game Adam
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