She Didn’t Flake, You Just Gave Up Too Easily

If you were in a boxing match with someone and at some point you threw a bad punch that missed the mark by a mile, what would you do?
Would you refocus your attention and try to make sure that your next few punches were straighter and harder and had a better chance of hitting the intended target OR would you give up and walk out of the ring right then and there?
I hope you’d choose the first option and keep on fighting.
I also hope you’d apply the same amount of persistence and resilience to pickup and dating as well.
Most people don’t.
In pickup and dating, what most people do is give up at the first sign of resistance or difficulty. For example:

• She doesn’t laugh at one joke or respond well to something they say and the guy walks away
• She doesn’t respond to one text message and the guy stops messaging her
• She doesn’t answer one phone call and the guy stops calling her
• She cancels one date and the guy gives up on dating her

And on and on and on….
Don’t let this happen to you.
Anytime some type or resistance or difficulty pops up – hang in there.
Be strong. Be committed. Be unaffected. Be persistent.
Don’t be the guy who has to get ten numbers to convert one of them into one date.
Be the guy who can get one number and plow through ten minor challenges to get her into bed.
Make the decision NOW to no longer give up too easily on the women you are interested in.
You owe it to yourself and to the women you are interested in to be the strong, attractive guy who goes after what he wants and no longer gives up easily.
Make it happen.