In the following interview, Special K shares details of his journey and some of his secrets that helped him to achieve outstanding success in a relatively short period of time.
DayGameAdam: What was your history like with women prior to joining School of Attraction?
My history with women before School of Attraction was very poor. I had zero female friends in high school and very little contact with girls in general due to my shyness. It took a lot of effort for me to finally sleep with one girl at the age of 19. I saw her a few times after that and then she disappeared. So all in all, I had very little experience and history with women.
DayGameAdam: What made you want to join School of Attraction’s Since Seduction Intensive course?
After a few years of time and effort spent on trying to develop my “pick up” skills, I had basically zero results and the frustration took a big toll on my overall sense of self worth. After not being able to sleep with a single girl in two separate two month backpacking trips in Europe, with my initial expectations set very high, I made one of the most radical but best decisions of my life – I decided to move out of home and move to the city and to also enroll in in School of Attraction’s Sincere Seduction Intensive program. I hoped that doing these two things would once and for all get my dating life handled and I am happy to say that I achieved my goal and I haven’t looked back ever since then.
DayGameAdam: You are a very smart guy and a very fast learner, what do you personally think are the keys to learning and success in this game? What do you think you do better than most other guys?
I think the key to learning and success in this game is consistency and focus. There are certain “aspects” of this game where guys get stuck – such as making a good strong first impression with girls, texting or following up with girls for dates, or planning the dates themselves. I find that a lot of guys get stuck on these areas without ever knowing “why” and “how they can improve on it”. Thus, they may go on for months and months doing the same thing, get frustrated with the results and soon give up. I believe what I do better than most guys is simplifying everything, focusing on one aspect of game at a time, and being consistent in tackling that “sticking point” until I solve it for good. I also agree with School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien D, that setting SMART goals and keeping a good journal are very important to success too.
DayGameAdam: I totally agree about the value of focusing on specific sticking points until you have mastered them. What is an example of a particular area that you achieved massive improvement in by focusing on it intently and intelligently?
An example I have achieved a massive improvement on is sexual escalation. Before joining the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, I always seemed to have very “nice” conversation with girls in nightclubs which never went anywhere. I was essentially scared to make my intentions clear and to let the girl know I’m sexually interested in her. When this came to my awareness thanks to some School of Attraction coaching, I focused on this aspect of my game for more than a whole month. Firstly, it was just learning to sexually compliment girls, then I focused on sexually screening girls then telling sexual stories and pushing the boundaries further and further. I’m now really comfortable with this aspect of my game and my interactions have improved massively as a result.
DayGameAdam: Having dated a number of women and spent considerable time with many of them during the time you were doing the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, what are some of the key things you’ve learned about and from women?
One of the key things I learned about women is that they seem to look for and are drawn to men who have integrity, humour and the self trust to take the leading role. I found that I nearly always had to be the one to initiate talking to a girl, asking for her number, texting her, asking her out and planning dates for her. For the guys out there hoping for girls to just fall on their lap, its not going to happen by itself! Another thing I learned about women is that they enjoy sex just as much as men do. That’s super exciting news isn’t it?
DayGameAdam: I agree with you that a guy should take the lead throughout the pickup, dating and relationship process. Can you share a personal example where you took the lead and and made things happen where other guys or perhaps an earlier version of you may have faltered?
An example of where I took the lead was on many of my dates where I decided where to go next, when to go and what we’ll do. Girls seemed to love a man who has a plan. Whenever I have forgotten to plan the date well or I fail to take the lead I’m quickly reminded of the importance of taking the lead by her losing interest. I now try to plan all my dates really intelligently so that I am leading the experience and usually good things happen as a result of this.
DayGameAdam: What were some of your main highlight and achievement during the Sincere Seduction Intensive course?
One of the main highlights for me was meeting an amazing girl in the first session of the course during the daytime when you were coaching me. I clicked with her extremely well on the first date, then I took her on an AMAZING dates afterwards and I have been sleeping with her and spending time with her consistently for the last few months since then. She is a really top notch girl and I’m so glad to have met her and for her to be part of my life now.
One of my other proudest moment was getting my first “same night lay” with another very nice girl that I met at the Ivy Nightclub. Since bringing her home that night I’ve built and maintained a very good sexual relationship with her.
DayGameAdam: They both sound like awesome achievements. Please share a bit about what do you appreciate and enjoy most about your main girl that you met in your first day game session and what it’s like having her in your life?
I appreciate and enjoy her energetic, positive, bubbly, adventurous and sometimes crazy personality. I feel excited about meeting her every single time even though we’ve already been seeing each other for three months already. I really appreciate having her in my life as she’s taught me a lot about what I appreciate in women and even though we may not end up not being together forever (as she’s returning home overseas in a few months), we’ve still managed to create an amazing memory for each other.
DayGameAdam: Originally I don’t think you were a big fan of night game but it’s great to see you turn that around. What happened to make you start enjoying night game more and please tell us a little bit about your first Same Night Lay.
I started enjoying nightgame when I was introduced to the idea of focusing on the process and not the result. Night game pick up is in general a very difficult skill to learn. There are lots of guys out to pick up and women generally won’t give you the time of day unless you do things well. As a result, it was a very frustrating thing for me at first as I never got any results. However, when I switched my thinking to focusing on improving my process and skillset of pick up, it became an interesting game of self improvement for me. My first same night lay was quite straight forward. I talked to a girl, her friends disappeared, I bounced her around the club, walked her outside to get something to eat at McDonalds and then walked her back to my home. When pick up is done right, it can very easy and straight forward in my opinion.
DayGameAdam: Now that you are near the end of the main part of the Sincere Seduction Intensive course and are about to begin mentoring other School of Attraction students, what are some of the main things you learned about yourself and pickup and dating? How much have you improved your confidence and skills and ability with women over the past 10 weeks or so?
The main things I’ve learnt about myself is that I am DEFINITELY more than capable of getting the romantic life that I want. I’ve really learnt to appreciate my own strengths and also to identify my weaknesses and work hard on improving them. My confidence has skyrocketed as a result of my continued action and my skills and abilities with women have improved dramatically too. I used to be the type of guy who approached lots of girls and rarely got dates. Now I can approach, date as well as sleep with a fair share of girls relatively easily. More importantly, I’ve learnt how to continue improving myself well into the foreseeable future even after the course has ended. I look forward to starting mentoring and helping other School of Attraction students to achieve their own success soon too.
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