I’m currently coaching three programs.
These programs are currently all face to face and require you to be
able to either live in Sydney or get to Sydney for the theory sessions.
The courses currently available are:
Dating Mastery – “Learn to sleep with almost any woman in 3 dates or less…”
Phone and Text Mastery – “Start turning more numbers into dates and use your phone to get laid…”
Internet Dating Mastery – “Learn the easiest way to meet and date an almost unlimited supply of attractive women…”
For more details, click the links below:
Dating Mastery – LINK
Phone and Text Mastery – LINK
Internet Dating Mastery – LINK
Sunday, August 4, 2013
Testimonials
“Adam’s Day game coaching has helped me to be able to approach and
attract the type of girls I like relatively easily within just a few
sessions. On my most recent session with him I got 5 numbers out of 6
approaches and a few of these girls I would consider to be solid 8′s who
I’d be very happy to date…”
-Martin
—–
“I recently decided to embark on the Day Game Mastery course knowing I would be in great hands with Adam. While I am just over half way through the course, I have already had some absolutely amazing results and I see this course as something really special.
Adam gives so much of himself to his students, in session and during the week when I am practising on my own. I have messaged him, posted on the forums, emailed and called him regarding topics about Day Game, but also texting and dates. Every time he has responded quickly and with enthusiasm, wisdom and a genuine willingness to see me become the best I can be.
Last Saturday we were supposed to have a 3 hour session, but because he had some free time, the session turned into 4.5 hours. Throughout the whole day he pushed me where I needed it, analysed each interaction and offered suggestions as to how to improve. It was an amazing experience that I carried with me throughout the day and ended up doing close to 40 approaches with Adam, by myself and with another SOA student and got a total of eight numbers by the end of the day. Seven of the eight have replied to me and I’ve already arranged dates with two of them with more to come.
If you truly want to become amazing at Day Game, I highly recommend this course.”
-Nick
—–
“Adam’s Day Game Mastery course helped me to regain some confidence and to start dating some really great girls. I’m at the point now where I almost have too many girls to date and I need to find more time in my life to be able to date them all. I’d recommend Day Game Mastery to anyone who wants to learn how to meet women during the day.”
-Pav
—–
“Day Game Adam is truly an expert at Day Game and is a fantastic coach. He helped me get 5 numbers from attractive girls in just over one hour of approaching and it was only my second time ever trying Day Game!”
-Dan S
—–
“Day Game Adam is super supportive and extremely optimistic which, along with some great techniques he shared with me, helped me to overcome my anxiety about approaching women and led to me having some great interactions with some fantastic women. I’m very happy to have learned Day Game from such an excellent coach and teacher.”
-Flavio
—–
“Day Game Adam is extremely knowledgeable about Day Game and was always spot on with giving me suggestions to improve interactions and correct mistakes I was making which instantly lead to better results.”
-Ed
—–
“I learned a LOT from my time with Day Game Adam and I can now pickup women during the day relatively easily. I recommend him highly for anyone wanting to learn Day Game.”
-Blair
—–
“The best thing about Adam isn’t the fact that he’s got solid pick-up skills and can basically get the girl anytime he likes. It isn’t the fact that he’s constantly working on himself and pushing his own boundaries so that he’s always getting better. It isn’t even the fact that he built his ability to charm and seduce women from the ground up so he can help people at any stage along the way.
The best thing is the fact he doesn’t try to change you. He’ll take who you are and show you how to be naturally charming. This means you’re not trying to fake it. Your interactions are more relaxed and flow more easily. The advice he gives you will be different to the advice he gives the next guy – because no two people are the same. The only way he can do this is to really genuinely care about the people he’s teaching. He’s one of the best out there at pickup – but he’s even better at being a coach.”
-Stuart
—–
“Adam, I just want to thank you for your Day Game Training which has totally transformed my dating life.
With your help I have been able to get phone numbers from one in four girls I approach. I am able to do this wearing just t-shirt and jeans.
Within a week of finishing the Day Game course I was sleeping with a girl I approached in the city.
I am now dating a girl who really digs me who I find really attractive who I met in the CBD on a Monday around 2pm. She tells me she wouldn’t have been as interested in me if we met in a bar as she doesn’t like them or the guys who go to them.
I think Day Game is much more suitable for me as I am not an outwardly cool, tough alpha male which has made bars and clubs disheartening. My friendly, non-threatening face and demeanor seem more suited to Day Game – and I just wish I had focused my energies on this abundant, low-competition field earlier.”
-Ben
—–
“I now have multiple attractive women in my life thanks to learning Day Game with Adam. I highly recommend the course to anyone wanting to learn what I consider to be the BEST way to meet women.”
-Victor
-Martin
—–
“I recently decided to embark on the Day Game Mastery course knowing I would be in great hands with Adam. While I am just over half way through the course, I have already had some absolutely amazing results and I see this course as something really special.
Adam gives so much of himself to his students, in session and during the week when I am practising on my own. I have messaged him, posted on the forums, emailed and called him regarding topics about Day Game, but also texting and dates. Every time he has responded quickly and with enthusiasm, wisdom and a genuine willingness to see me become the best I can be.
Last Saturday we were supposed to have a 3 hour session, but because he had some free time, the session turned into 4.5 hours. Throughout the whole day he pushed me where I needed it, analysed each interaction and offered suggestions as to how to improve. It was an amazing experience that I carried with me throughout the day and ended up doing close to 40 approaches with Adam, by myself and with another SOA student and got a total of eight numbers by the end of the day. Seven of the eight have replied to me and I’ve already arranged dates with two of them with more to come.
If you truly want to become amazing at Day Game, I highly recommend this course.”
-Nick
—–
“Adam’s Day Game Mastery course helped me to regain some confidence and to start dating some really great girls. I’m at the point now where I almost have too many girls to date and I need to find more time in my life to be able to date them all. I’d recommend Day Game Mastery to anyone who wants to learn how to meet women during the day.”
-Pav
—–
“Day Game Adam is truly an expert at Day Game and is a fantastic coach. He helped me get 5 numbers from attractive girls in just over one hour of approaching and it was only my second time ever trying Day Game!”
-Dan S
—–
“Day Game Adam is super supportive and extremely optimistic which, along with some great techniques he shared with me, helped me to overcome my anxiety about approaching women and led to me having some great interactions with some fantastic women. I’m very happy to have learned Day Game from such an excellent coach and teacher.”
-Flavio
—–
“Day Game Adam is extremely knowledgeable about Day Game and was always spot on with giving me suggestions to improve interactions and correct mistakes I was making which instantly lead to better results.”
-Ed
—–
“I learned a LOT from my time with Day Game Adam and I can now pickup women during the day relatively easily. I recommend him highly for anyone wanting to learn Day Game.”
-Blair
—–
“The best thing about Adam isn’t the fact that he’s got solid pick-up skills and can basically get the girl anytime he likes. It isn’t the fact that he’s constantly working on himself and pushing his own boundaries so that he’s always getting better. It isn’t even the fact that he built his ability to charm and seduce women from the ground up so he can help people at any stage along the way.
The best thing is the fact he doesn’t try to change you. He’ll take who you are and show you how to be naturally charming. This means you’re not trying to fake it. Your interactions are more relaxed and flow more easily. The advice he gives you will be different to the advice he gives the next guy – because no two people are the same. The only way he can do this is to really genuinely care about the people he’s teaching. He’s one of the best out there at pickup – but he’s even better at being a coach.”
-Stuart
—–
“Adam, I just want to thank you for your Day Game Training which has totally transformed my dating life.
With your help I have been able to get phone numbers from one in four girls I approach. I am able to do this wearing just t-shirt and jeans.
Within a week of finishing the Day Game course I was sleeping with a girl I approached in the city.
I am now dating a girl who really digs me who I find really attractive who I met in the CBD on a Monday around 2pm. She tells me she wouldn’t have been as interested in me if we met in a bar as she doesn’t like them or the guys who go to them.
I think Day Game is much more suitable for me as I am not an outwardly cool, tough alpha male which has made bars and clubs disheartening. My friendly, non-threatening face and demeanor seem more suited to Day Game – and I just wish I had focused my energies on this abundant, low-competition field earlier.”
-Ben
—–
“I now have multiple attractive women in my life thanks to learning Day Game with Adam. I highly recommend the course to anyone wanting to learn what I consider to be the BEST way to meet women.”
-Victor
ABOUT
“Day Game Adam” got his name from his preference for meeting and
attracting beautiful women in the day time rather than at night like so
many others choose to do.
His knowledge of Day Game is unmatched and, as a School of Attraction Coach, his dedication to helping students achieve their pickup and dating goals is exceptional.
Adam is also an expert in both dating and phone and text game and he currently teaches both of these subjects as advanced modules for School of Attraction Graduates.
His knowledge of Day Game is unmatched and, as a School of Attraction Coach, his dedication to helping students achieve their pickup and dating goals is exceptional.
Adam is also an expert in both dating and phone and text game and he currently teaches both of these subjects as advanced modules for School of Attraction Graduates.
Convert More Numbers To Dates
Women are busy creatures. They have lots of stuff to do, lots of
places to go and lots of people to talk to (friends, family etc.).
Women are also very emotional so whether they will or will not do something very often depends on how they feel at a particular time.
Knowing how busy women are and how emotional they are too, it is quite likely that many of them may not reply to every single SMS or call they get.
So then, what should you do if you contact a girl and she doesn’t reply or answer your call?
Should you give up on her and move on to the next girl?
Definitely not! That would be immature and wasteful.
Instead, I suggest that you simply wait a few day and try again.
In fact, what I advise is to make sure you try at least 3 times with every number you get with at least one of those attempts being a phone call.
Applying this three strike rule with every number you get shows that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, develops your persistence muscles and increases your chances of getting dates.
It is simply the right thing to do if you want to be excellent with women.
But wheres the prove that this actually works you ask?
Right here:
Happy now?
Great. Now repeat the following rule after me:
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and again
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and one more time (three is the magic number after all)
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
Excellent, now start applying and benefiting from this rule!
Women are also very emotional so whether they will or will not do something very often depends on how they feel at a particular time.
Knowing how busy women are and how emotional they are too, it is quite likely that many of them may not reply to every single SMS or call they get.
So then, what should you do if you contact a girl and she doesn’t reply or answer your call?
Should you give up on her and move on to the next girl?
Definitely not! That would be immature and wasteful.
Instead, I suggest that you simply wait a few day and try again.
In fact, what I advise is to make sure you try at least 3 times with every number you get with at least one of those attempts being a phone call.
Applying this three strike rule with every number you get shows that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, develops your persistence muscles and increases your chances of getting dates.
It is simply the right thing to do if you want to be excellent with women.
But wheres the prove that this actually works you ask?
Right here:
Great. Now repeat the following rule after me:
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and again
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
and one more time (three is the magic number after all)
“I will make at least 3 attempts at contacting every number I get with at least one attempt being a phone call.”
Excellent, now start applying and benefiting from this rule!
Interview: Special K (School of Attraction student)
Special K is one of the most intelligent students I have ever
coached. He figured out a lot of stuff much faster than the average
student and did certain things that I wish I had done when I was his
age. I also really respect his effort levels in every session that I
coached him in and also in recording his journey in extensive detail on
the School of Attraction private forums.
In the following interview, Special K shares details of his journey and some of his secrets that helped him to achieve outstanding success in a relatively short period of time.
DayGameAdam: What was your history like with women prior to joining School of Attraction?
My history with women before School of Attraction was very poor. I had zero female friends in high school and very little contact with girls in general due to my shyness. It took a lot of effort for me to finally sleep with one girl at the age of 19. I saw her a few times after that and then she disappeared. So all in all, I had very little experience and history with women.
DayGameAdam: What made you want to join School of Attraction’s Since Seduction Intensive course?
After a few years of time and effort spent on trying to develop my “pick up” skills, I had basically zero results and the frustration took a big toll on my overall sense of self worth. After not being able to sleep with a single girl in two separate two month backpacking trips in Europe, with my initial expectations set very high, I made one of the most radical but best decisions of my life – I decided to move out of home and move to the city and to also enroll in in School of Attraction’s Sincere Seduction Intensive program. I hoped that doing these two things would once and for all get my dating life handled and I am happy to say that I achieved my goal and I haven’t looked back ever since then.
DayGameAdam: You are a very smart guy and a very fast learner, what do you personally think are the keys to learning and success in this game? What do you think you do better than most other guys?
I think the key to learning and success in this game is consistency and focus. There are certain “aspects” of this game where guys get stuck – such as making a good strong first impression with girls, texting or following up with girls for dates, or planning the dates themselves. I find that a lot of guys get stuck on these areas without ever knowing “why” and “how they can improve on it”. Thus, they may go on for months and months doing the same thing, get frustrated with the results and soon give up. I believe what I do better than most guys is simplifying everything, focusing on one aspect of game at a time, and being consistent in tackling that “sticking point” until I solve it for good. I also agree with School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien D, that setting SMART goals and keeping a good journal are very important to success too.
DayGameAdam: I totally agree about the value of focusing on specific sticking points until you have mastered them. What is an example of a particular area that you achieved massive improvement in by focusing on it intently and intelligently?
An example I have achieved a massive improvement on is sexual escalation. Before joining the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, I always seemed to have very “nice” conversation with girls in nightclubs which never went anywhere. I was essentially scared to make my intentions clear and to let the girl know I’m sexually interested in her. When this came to my awareness thanks to some School of Attraction coaching, I focused on this aspect of my game for more than a whole month. Firstly, it was just learning to sexually compliment girls, then I focused on sexually screening girls then telling sexual stories and pushing the boundaries further and further. I’m now really comfortable with this aspect of my game and my interactions have improved massively as a result.
DayGameAdam: Having dated a number of women and spent considerable time with many of them during the time you were doing the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, what are some of the key things you’ve learned about and from women?
One of the key things I learned about women is that they seem to look for and are drawn to men who have integrity, humour and the self trust to take the leading role. I found that I nearly always had to be the one to initiate talking to a girl, asking for her number, texting her, asking her out and planning dates for her. For the guys out there hoping for girls to just fall on their lap, its not going to happen by itself! Another thing I learned about women is that they enjoy sex just as much as men do. That’s super exciting news isn’t it?
DayGameAdam: I agree with you that a guy should take the lead throughout the pickup, dating and relationship process. Can you share a personal example where you took the lead and and made things happen where other guys or perhaps an earlier version of you may have faltered?
An example of where I took the lead was on many of my dates where I decided where to go next, when to go and what we’ll do. Girls seemed to love a man who has a plan. Whenever I have forgotten to plan the date well or I fail to take the lead I’m quickly reminded of the importance of taking the lead by her losing interest. I now try to plan all my dates really intelligently so that I am leading the experience and usually good things happen as a result of this.
DayGameAdam: What were some of your main highlight and achievement during the Sincere Seduction Intensive course?
One of the main highlights for me was meeting an amazing girl in the first session of the course during the daytime when you were coaching me. I clicked with her extremely well on the first date, then I took her on an AMAZING dates afterwards and I have been sleeping with her and spending time with her consistently for the last few months since then. She is a really top notch girl and I’m so glad to have met her and for her to be part of my life now.
One of my other proudest moment was getting my first “same night lay” with another very nice girl that I met at the Ivy Nightclub. Since bringing her home that night I’ve built and maintained a very good sexual relationship with her.
DayGameAdam: They both sound like awesome achievements. Please share a bit about what do you appreciate and enjoy most about your main girl that you met in your first day game session and what it’s like having her in your life?
I appreciate and enjoy her energetic, positive, bubbly, adventurous and sometimes crazy personality. I feel excited about meeting her every single time even though we’ve already been seeing each other for three months already. I really appreciate having her in my life as she’s taught me a lot about what I appreciate in women and even though we may not end up not being together forever (as she’s returning home overseas in a few months), we’ve still managed to create an amazing memory for each other.
DayGameAdam: Originally I don’t think you were a big fan of night game but it’s great to see you turn that around. What happened to make you start enjoying night game more and please tell us a little bit about your first Same Night Lay.
I started enjoying nightgame when I was introduced to the idea of focusing on the process and not the result. Night game pick up is in general a very difficult skill to learn. There are lots of guys out to pick up and women generally won’t give you the time of day unless you do things well. As a result, it was a very frustrating thing for me at first as I never got any results. However, when I switched my thinking to focusing on improving my process and skillset of pick up, it became an interesting game of self improvement for me. My first same night lay was quite straight forward. I talked to a girl, her friends disappeared, I bounced her around the club, walked her outside to get something to eat at McDonalds and then walked her back to my home. When pick up is done right, it can very easy and straight forward in my opinion.
DayGameAdam: Now that you are near the end of the main part of the Sincere Seduction Intensive course and are about to begin mentoring other School of Attraction students, what are some of the main things you learned about yourself and pickup and dating? How much have you improved your confidence and skills and ability with women over the past 10 weeks or so?
The main things I’ve learnt about myself is that I am DEFINITELY more than capable of getting the romantic life that I want. I’ve really learnt to appreciate my own strengths and also to identify my weaknesses and work hard on improving them. My confidence has skyrocketed as a result of my continued action and my skills and abilities with women have improved dramatically too. I used to be the type of guy who approached lots of girls and rarely got dates. Now I can approach, date as well as sleep with a fair share of girls relatively easily. More importantly, I’ve learnt how to continue improving myself well into the foreseeable future even after the course has ended. I look forward to starting mentoring and helping other School of Attraction students to achieve their own success soon too.
In the following interview, Special K shares details of his journey and some of his secrets that helped him to achieve outstanding success in a relatively short period of time.
DayGameAdam: What was your history like with women prior to joining School of Attraction?
My history with women before School of Attraction was very poor. I had zero female friends in high school and very little contact with girls in general due to my shyness. It took a lot of effort for me to finally sleep with one girl at the age of 19. I saw her a few times after that and then she disappeared. So all in all, I had very little experience and history with women.
DayGameAdam: What made you want to join School of Attraction’s Since Seduction Intensive course?
After a few years of time and effort spent on trying to develop my “pick up” skills, I had basically zero results and the frustration took a big toll on my overall sense of self worth. After not being able to sleep with a single girl in two separate two month backpacking trips in Europe, with my initial expectations set very high, I made one of the most radical but best decisions of my life – I decided to move out of home and move to the city and to also enroll in in School of Attraction’s Sincere Seduction Intensive program. I hoped that doing these two things would once and for all get my dating life handled and I am happy to say that I achieved my goal and I haven’t looked back ever since then.
DayGameAdam: You are a very smart guy and a very fast learner, what do you personally think are the keys to learning and success in this game? What do you think you do better than most other guys?
I think the key to learning and success in this game is consistency and focus. There are certain “aspects” of this game where guys get stuck – such as making a good strong first impression with girls, texting or following up with girls for dates, or planning the dates themselves. I find that a lot of guys get stuck on these areas without ever knowing “why” and “how they can improve on it”. Thus, they may go on for months and months doing the same thing, get frustrated with the results and soon give up. I believe what I do better than most guys is simplifying everything, focusing on one aspect of game at a time, and being consistent in tackling that “sticking point” until I solve it for good. I also agree with School of Attraction Head Coach, Damien D, that setting SMART goals and keeping a good journal are very important to success too.
DayGameAdam: I totally agree about the value of focusing on specific sticking points until you have mastered them. What is an example of a particular area that you achieved massive improvement in by focusing on it intently and intelligently?
An example I have achieved a massive improvement on is sexual escalation. Before joining the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, I always seemed to have very “nice” conversation with girls in nightclubs which never went anywhere. I was essentially scared to make my intentions clear and to let the girl know I’m sexually interested in her. When this came to my awareness thanks to some School of Attraction coaching, I focused on this aspect of my game for more than a whole month. Firstly, it was just learning to sexually compliment girls, then I focused on sexually screening girls then telling sexual stories and pushing the boundaries further and further. I’m now really comfortable with this aspect of my game and my interactions have improved massively as a result.
DayGameAdam: Having dated a number of women and spent considerable time with many of them during the time you were doing the Sincere Seduction Intensive course, what are some of the key things you’ve learned about and from women?
One of the key things I learned about women is that they seem to look for and are drawn to men who have integrity, humour and the self trust to take the leading role. I found that I nearly always had to be the one to initiate talking to a girl, asking for her number, texting her, asking her out and planning dates for her. For the guys out there hoping for girls to just fall on their lap, its not going to happen by itself! Another thing I learned about women is that they enjoy sex just as much as men do. That’s super exciting news isn’t it?
DayGameAdam: I agree with you that a guy should take the lead throughout the pickup, dating and relationship process. Can you share a personal example where you took the lead and and made things happen where other guys or perhaps an earlier version of you may have faltered?
An example of where I took the lead was on many of my dates where I decided where to go next, when to go and what we’ll do. Girls seemed to love a man who has a plan. Whenever I have forgotten to plan the date well or I fail to take the lead I’m quickly reminded of the importance of taking the lead by her losing interest. I now try to plan all my dates really intelligently so that I am leading the experience and usually good things happen as a result of this.
DayGameAdam: What were some of your main highlight and achievement during the Sincere Seduction Intensive course?
One of the main highlights for me was meeting an amazing girl in the first session of the course during the daytime when you were coaching me. I clicked with her extremely well on the first date, then I took her on an AMAZING dates afterwards and I have been sleeping with her and spending time with her consistently for the last few months since then. She is a really top notch girl and I’m so glad to have met her and for her to be part of my life now.
One of my other proudest moment was getting my first “same night lay” with another very nice girl that I met at the Ivy Nightclub. Since bringing her home that night I’ve built and maintained a very good sexual relationship with her.
DayGameAdam: They both sound like awesome achievements. Please share a bit about what do you appreciate and enjoy most about your main girl that you met in your first day game session and what it’s like having her in your life?
I appreciate and enjoy her energetic, positive, bubbly, adventurous and sometimes crazy personality. I feel excited about meeting her every single time even though we’ve already been seeing each other for three months already. I really appreciate having her in my life as she’s taught me a lot about what I appreciate in women and even though we may not end up not being together forever (as she’s returning home overseas in a few months), we’ve still managed to create an amazing memory for each other.
DayGameAdam: Originally I don’t think you were a big fan of night game but it’s great to see you turn that around. What happened to make you start enjoying night game more and please tell us a little bit about your first Same Night Lay.
I started enjoying nightgame when I was introduced to the idea of focusing on the process and not the result. Night game pick up is in general a very difficult skill to learn. There are lots of guys out to pick up and women generally won’t give you the time of day unless you do things well. As a result, it was a very frustrating thing for me at first as I never got any results. However, when I switched my thinking to focusing on improving my process and skillset of pick up, it became an interesting game of self improvement for me. My first same night lay was quite straight forward. I talked to a girl, her friends disappeared, I bounced her around the club, walked her outside to get something to eat at McDonalds and then walked her back to my home. When pick up is done right, it can very easy and straight forward in my opinion.
DayGameAdam: Now that you are near the end of the main part of the Sincere Seduction Intensive course and are about to begin mentoring other School of Attraction students, what are some of the main things you learned about yourself and pickup and dating? How much have you improved your confidence and skills and ability with women over the past 10 weeks or so?
The main things I’ve learnt about myself is that I am DEFINITELY more than capable of getting the romantic life that I want. I’ve really learnt to appreciate my own strengths and also to identify my weaknesses and work hard on improving them. My confidence has skyrocketed as a result of my continued action and my skills and abilities with women have improved dramatically too. I used to be the type of guy who approached lots of girls and rarely got dates. Now I can approach, date as well as sleep with a fair share of girls relatively easily. More importantly, I’ve learnt how to continue improving myself well into the foreseeable future even after the course has ended. I look forward to starting mentoring and helping other School of Attraction students to achieve their own success soon too.
Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins
A few guys who still have their V cards have recently asked me for
sex advice. Most of them have a significant amount of anxiety around
their lack of sexual experience.
I decided to combine my top five sex tips for virgins (and 1 bonus tip) and put them into an article that I hope can help the less sexually experienced guys out there to prepare for and hopefully enjoy their first time.
Here’s my Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins:
Tip #1: Become A Good Kisser
If you’d like to really increase your confidence in your ability to please women in the bedroom, how about learning how to pleasure them outside of the bedroom first by learning to become a great kisser? A good kisser is relaxed, smooth and understands how to gently increase the levels of passion and intensity at a steady pace. Developing these traits will create tremendous pleasure for almost any women you kiss and it also translates directly to the type of attitude you should eventually have in the bedroom as well.
Tip #2 Don’t Forget Foreplay
When you do decide to go all the way and take things to the bedroom, don’t forget the importance of foreplay to prepare, enhance and extend the love making process. From kissing to touching to licking to whatever you or her feels like are all great options to make the entire sexual experience much more pleasurable and more successful for both of you. The actual sexual intercourse is a great main event but surround it a great opening act and plentiful sideshows and good things will happen.
Tip #3: Limit The Level Of Intimacy
To remove a lot of pressure from yourself to be an amazing lover the very first time, I recommend that you consider taking baby steps towards having full sex. For a first timer, it’s much easier to gently slide your finger and/or your tongue inside of her and please her that way than it is to have full sex – and it can be just as fun and pleasurable as well. She will probably return the favor with her hand or tongue as well but either way, you still made important progress that you can build on over time. Once touching and licking her sexual areas becomes easier and easier, you can then start moving towards full sex in the future love making sessions.
Tip #4: Keep It Simple
When it is time to have full sex, it’s probably not the best idea to choose difficult positions that even yoga instructors or Olympic gymnasts would find difficult for your first attempt. Instead, start with the easiest position possible and go from there. Some of the easiest sexual positions to consider include:
Communicating about and during sex is extremely important and is especially helpful when it’s your (or her) first time. Ask her “does that feel good?” to find out if what you’re doing is pleasurable to her. Gently tell her to move into positions and to help out where needed as well. If you don’t want to go all the way and want to limit the amount of intimacy tell her something like “I think it would be better if we waited…”. Any thing else you need or want along the way – just talk about it with her and chances are that it will lead to a better first experience.
Bonus Tip: Get A Sex Buddy Or Girlfriend
The way to true sexual skill and confidence is significant experimentation and regular practice. The best way to do this is have a sex partner or girlfriend that you can have a lots and lots of sex with. Regular sex with my first girlfriend turned me from a complete amateur to a complete pro in the bedroom in about three months and this, in turn, increased my confidence with women and in life significantly. You can and should do the same thing and practice sex a lot with your first sex buddy or girlfriend too.
I hope the above tips help any of the less sexually experienced guys reading this to feel more confident about their first time/s and to move towards becoming a skilled romantic partner.
Have fun guys!
I decided to combine my top five sex tips for virgins (and 1 bonus tip) and put them into an article that I hope can help the less sexually experienced guys out there to prepare for and hopefully enjoy their first time.
Here’s my Top Five Sex Tips For Virgins:
Tip #1: Become A Good Kisser
If you’d like to really increase your confidence in your ability to please women in the bedroom, how about learning how to pleasure them outside of the bedroom first by learning to become a great kisser? A good kisser is relaxed, smooth and understands how to gently increase the levels of passion and intensity at a steady pace. Developing these traits will create tremendous pleasure for almost any women you kiss and it also translates directly to the type of attitude you should eventually have in the bedroom as well.
Tip #2 Don’t Forget Foreplay
When you do decide to go all the way and take things to the bedroom, don’t forget the importance of foreplay to prepare, enhance and extend the love making process. From kissing to touching to licking to whatever you or her feels like are all great options to make the entire sexual experience much more pleasurable and more successful for both of you. The actual sexual intercourse is a great main event but surround it a great opening act and plentiful sideshows and good things will happen.
Tip #3: Limit The Level Of Intimacy
To remove a lot of pressure from yourself to be an amazing lover the very first time, I recommend that you consider taking baby steps towards having full sex. For a first timer, it’s much easier to gently slide your finger and/or your tongue inside of her and please her that way than it is to have full sex – and it can be just as fun and pleasurable as well. She will probably return the favor with her hand or tongue as well but either way, you still made important progress that you can build on over time. Once touching and licking her sexual areas becomes easier and easier, you can then start moving towards full sex in the future love making sessions.
Tip #4: Keep It Simple
When it is time to have full sex, it’s probably not the best idea to choose difficult positions that even yoga instructors or Olympic gymnasts would find difficult for your first attempt. Instead, start with the easiest position possible and go from there. Some of the easiest sexual positions to consider include:
- Missionary/deck chair – she lies on her back, put a pillow underneath her pelvis to elevate her for easier positioning then spread her legs and guide yourself inside her from a kneeling position.
- Spoon – she lays on her side facing away from you and you slide inside her from the side and slightly lower than her.
- Her on top – you lie flat on your back and she lowers herself on top of you at her own preferred pace and positioning.
Communicating about and during sex is extremely important and is especially helpful when it’s your (or her) first time. Ask her “does that feel good?” to find out if what you’re doing is pleasurable to her. Gently tell her to move into positions and to help out where needed as well. If you don’t want to go all the way and want to limit the amount of intimacy tell her something like “I think it would be better if we waited…”. Any thing else you need or want along the way – just talk about it with her and chances are that it will lead to a better first experience.
Bonus Tip: Get A Sex Buddy Or Girlfriend
The way to true sexual skill and confidence is significant experimentation and regular practice. The best way to do this is have a sex partner or girlfriend that you can have a lots and lots of sex with. Regular sex with my first girlfriend turned me from a complete amateur to a complete pro in the bedroom in about three months and this, in turn, increased my confidence with women and in life significantly. You can and should do the same thing and practice sex a lot with your first sex buddy or girlfriend too.
I hope the above tips help any of the less sexually experienced guys reading this to feel more confident about their first time/s and to move towards becoming a skilled romantic partner.
Have fun guys!
Phone and Text: The Ten Text Commandments
One of my favourite YouTube videos from School of Attraction Head
Coach, Damien Diecke, is the one he did on the Ten Text Commandments.
Watching this video and applying the information in it can significantly
improve your Phone and Text game.
Here’s my slightly rewarded version of the Ten Text Commandments and the original YouTube video is below:
1. Make Every Text Entertaining And/Or Leading
2. Make The First Message Personalized
3. Text within 24 Hours Of Getting Number
4. Spell Correctly
5. Avoid Geek Spelling
6. Don’t Lie
7. Give Every Girl A Nickname
8. Try To Set Up A Date Within 3 Days Of Getting Her Number
9. Text Every Other Day
10. Use Emoticons To Display Emotions
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=iDUZELERVkY
Here’s my slightly rewarded version of the Ten Text Commandments and the original YouTube video is below:
1. Make Every Text Entertaining And/Or Leading
2. Make The First Message Personalized
3. Text within 24 Hours Of Getting Number
4. Spell Correctly
5. Avoid Geek Spelling
6. Don’t Lie
7. Give Every Girl A Nickname
8. Try To Set Up A Date Within 3 Days Of Getting Her Number
9. Text Every Other Day
10. Use Emoticons To Display Emotions
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=iDUZELERVkY
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